This MOSTLY happens to the guys that acquiesce to women at the first stage of asking to do shit like good morning texts.
The ones that go 'no that sounds stupid and I ain't gonna waste time on it' typically get more interest because they've openly refused them, said they aren't the most important thing and ridiculed the idea.
A lot of these types really want a guy to take control and deny them at times because even they know they have a lot of stupid ideas.
This MOSTLY happens to the guys that acquiesce to women at the first stage of asking to do shit like good morning texts.
Exactly what I was going to say. This could have been headed off at the pass if you just say 'no' when she makes some silly demand. If you're not already doing "good morning texts," it probably doesn't mean much to you. If she asks for it and you agree, you'll get resentful and not like her as much, or eventually stop doing it like in this example. If you just tell her 'no,' you'll seem assertive, and not have to inject more bullshit and confusion into the relationship.
If a woman - or anyone else (except maybe like your boss or parent, depending on your relationship) - asks you to do something pointless, don't agree just because it's "small." That's just making everything more difficult, generally.
Men are at a disadvantage because women are allowed to say no where men cannot.
“Hey honey, can you do the laundry?” “No, I don’t really feel up to it” “ok sweetie that’s fine”
Flip side:
“Hey boo, can you take out the trash?” “No sorry, it’s been a long day I’ll get to it tomorrow” “what a selfish lazy pig, he doesn’t even listen to me, I should leave his ass”
Also women are allowed and encouraged to drop whoever if they perceive a better option is available. My own wife makes constant remarks that she’d leave me for NHL players and I shrug it off but if I said the same thing about models or actresses it’s suddenly a personal attack and I’m the villain
You have to figure out how to thread the needle of "she wants someone to tell her what to do and stop her stupid impulses" and "all of her friends have told her that a man who does that is being abusive". You also have to figure out how to do this perfectly before your first year of high school or you run the risk of her using her global communication device to shame you in front of the entire world. Good luck!
Correct. The request itself is a shit test. She's seeing how much control she has over you. Agreeing too easily causes her to lose interest, like the cat that loses interest once it's caught the toy. You gotta keep dancing in front of her.
Though I will say in the past society was arranged better to shut this down. Women who played these sorts of games were socially shamed and shunned for it. This was something Roosh talked about, how sick he was of having to constantly put on 'Clown Game' to keep girls around. It shows how 'PUA' is still ultimately a bid for female approval. You're playing the game better than most, but it's still a stupid game.
you make the plans for your life. you work towards building a lifestyle and life she can just "step into". that's what she wants and that's what she finds attractive.
wasting your time attending to her random whims is what low-standing, low-value men do. men who kind of know at some level they don't have much real to offer anyone. don't do that.
you live your life and she can come along if she wants. and she will, if your life and lifestyle are the best she thinks she can do, and if you're not a fat ugly pig-man who tends to take care of himself.
This MOSTLY happens to the guys that acquiesce to women at the first stage of asking to do shit like good morning texts.
The ones that go 'no that sounds stupid and I ain't gonna waste time on it' typically get more interest because they've openly refused them, said they aren't the most important thing and ridiculed the idea.
A lot of these types really want a guy to take control and deny them at times because even they know they have a lot of stupid ideas.
Exactly what I was going to say. This could have been headed off at the pass if you just say 'no' when she makes some silly demand. If you're not already doing "good morning texts," it probably doesn't mean much to you. If she asks for it and you agree, you'll get resentful and not like her as much, or eventually stop doing it like in this example. If you just tell her 'no,' you'll seem assertive, and not have to inject more bullshit and confusion into the relationship.
If a woman - or anyone else (except maybe like your boss or parent, depending on your relationship) - asks you to do something pointless, don't agree just because it's "small." That's just making everything more difficult, generally.
Men are eternally at a disadvantage in dating if women are allowed to leave.
Men are at a disadvantage because women are allowed to say no where men cannot.
“Hey honey, can you do the laundry?” “No, I don’t really feel up to it” “ok sweetie that’s fine”
Flip side:
“Hey boo, can you take out the trash?” “No sorry, it’s been a long day I’ll get to it tomorrow” “what a selfish lazy pig, he doesn’t even listen to me, I should leave his ass”
Also women are allowed and encouraged to drop whoever if they perceive a better option is available. My own wife makes constant remarks that she’d leave me for NHL players and I shrug it off but if I said the same thing about models or actresses it’s suddenly a personal attack and I’m the villain
Men are at a disadvantage because they can get another man while men are forced to be incredibly desperate.
You have to figure out how to thread the needle of "she wants someone to tell her what to do and stop her stupid impulses" and "all of her friends have told her that a man who does that is being abusive". You also have to figure out how to do this perfectly before your first year of high school or you run the risk of her using her global communication device to shame you in front of the entire world. Good luck!
Most of us never even had the chance to get close to a woman.
Correct. The request itself is a shit test. She's seeing how much control she has over you. Agreeing too easily causes her to lose interest, like the cat that loses interest once it's caught the toy. You gotta keep dancing in front of her.
Though I will say in the past society was arranged better to shut this down. Women who played these sorts of games were socially shamed and shunned for it. This was something Roosh talked about, how sick he was of having to constantly put on 'Clown Game' to keep girls around. It shows how 'PUA' is still ultimately a bid for female approval. You're playing the game better than most, but it's still a stupid game.
This is why women should be property.
you make the plans for your life. you work towards building a lifestyle and life she can just "step into". that's what she wants and that's what she finds attractive.
wasting your time attending to her random whims is what low-standing, low-value men do. men who kind of know at some level they don't have much real to offer anyone. don't do that.
you live your life and she can come along if she wants. and she will, if your life and lifestyle are the best she thinks she can do, and if you're not a fat ugly pig-man who tends to take care of himself.
Most men have no way attracting a woman and no way to prevent her from robbing us other than killing her in revenge and throwing our lives away