If right wingers just owned up and admitted they hate porn
My guy, the one's using 'porn addiction' in arguments to target men aren't right-wing. Near exclusively, I've seen it as something women(ie, leftists) use to try and control, shame, and harass men.
At least in my experience. If that's what you're seeing, then it's a fairly universal argument, albeit for completely different reasons.
Still. I'm beginning to suspect that 'porn addiction' is less a cause and more of a symptom - people looking at down-stream results and refusing to acknowledge the source of the problem. They mumble something about porn giving 'unrealistic expectations' or 'encourages abuse toward women' or 'muh sexual slavery' as emotional arguments without ever acknowledging why men prefer to jerk it in the privacy of their own homes as opposed to engage with women to get their dick wet.
people looking at down-stream results and refusing to acknowledge the source of the problem
Humans do this a lot, sadly, either intentionally through weakness, or by accident. Maybe it's due to lack of promoting critical thinking in upbringing, or just the mind reaching for the id and superego first, ego second.
Too much energy and focus is spent on the "what", "where", and "when"; not the "how"s and subsequent "why"s
We do it because looking upstream inevitably points towards uncomfortable and unpopular truths about genetics, IQ, etc. If you dig deep enough, you end up discovering immutable realities that are incompatible with polite society.
Feminists attack porn from the angle of sexual objectification and how it victimises them and their gender as a whole. I do know quite a lot about this, they don't use the porn addiction argument. It's almost exclusively right wingers wingers that I've seen make the porn addiction argument. This is why they view by comparison OnlyFans as empowering because they financially benefit from the male attention given.
This is my view as well that watching porn is very much of a symptom of the lack of any real relationship with women. Men have a sexual desire they're never going to get rid of no matter how much these ideological groups try. Will either groups address this? No and when they do they simply shame men and then move on. Either men are evil pigs who need to learn how to express their emotions more therefore their problems will automatically be fixed or they simply need to 'go outside' and they'll magically find women to talk to.
I'm a single guy in my 30's and I can tell you both statements about men are bullshit because I'm somebody who doesn't have social anxiety or anything like that. The struggle is very real to meet new people and you do have to be on your guard for crazies, it's mostly boomers and generation x'ers who make these points too which is how I know they're probably almost always married guys who are in their safe space family hug boxes and have no idea how bad it is.
When even the gymbros are avoiding contact with women as well as a result of false accusations by attention seeking thots you have a major problem on your hands. Same goes for professional men as well that are going to be way higher on the desirability ladder for a long term partner assuming any of those really exist anymore now they've largely been drummed out of society thanks to nepotistic diversity hiring practices.
I'm ranting and this isn't necessarily against you or anything, just a major source of frustration for me on why I take the piss out of both sides, they've got no fucking idea how bad it is. Gaming is one of the few things that's kept me sane over the decades which is why I will always defend it because it provides me an outlet for my stress.
Feminists attack porn from the angle of sexual objectification and how it victimises them and their gender as a whole. I do know quite a lot about this, they don't use the porn addiction argument. It's almost exclusively right wingers wingers that I've seen make the porn addiction argument.
True up until recently. There's a recent trend of leftist adults getting mad at artists who cater to relatively normal heterosexual men, and they attack by siccing minors on them. That crowd uses it as well, probably because most everyone they're going after have social media accounts consisting entirely of porn.
Thanks for that information, in my defence, that seems pretty niche I do know there's been screeching about artists drawing lewds but from what I knew it was still from the objectifying women angle so that's interesting to know.
My guy, the one's using 'porn addiction' in arguments to target men aren't right-wing. Near exclusively, I've seen it as something women(ie, leftists) use to try and control, shame, and harass men.
The best entertainment I've gotten out of NNN is watching gooners freak out about it.
You'd think they'd just shrug and move on, but apparently having self-discipline to not masturbate for a month or so will personally offend them to the point they need to name and shame.
Still. I'm beginning to suspect that 'porn addiction' is less a cause and more of a symptom - people looking at down-stream results and refusing to acknowledge the source of the problem. They mumble something about porn giving 'unrealistic expectations' or 'encourages abuse toward women' or 'muh sexual slavery' as emotional arguments without ever acknowledging why men prefer to jerk it in the privacy of their own homes as opposed to engage with women to get their dick wet.
Most men have no hope of getting a woman and any woman we could get would be a landwhale who weighs twice as much as us, is a financial, doesn't want kids and has no reason to stay loyal. What's there to gain besides humiliation?
My guy, the one's using 'porn addiction' in arguments to target men aren't right-wing. Near exclusively, I've seen it as something women(ie, leftists) use to try and control, shame, and harass men.
At least in my experience. If that's what you're seeing, then it's a fairly universal argument, albeit for completely different reasons.
Still. I'm beginning to suspect that 'porn addiction' is less a cause and more of a symptom - people looking at down-stream results and refusing to acknowledge the source of the problem. They mumble something about porn giving 'unrealistic expectations' or 'encourages abuse toward women' or 'muh sexual slavery' as emotional arguments without ever acknowledging why men prefer to jerk it in the privacy of their own homes as opposed to engage with women to get their dick wet.
Humans do this a lot, sadly, either intentionally through weakness, or by accident. Maybe it's due to lack of promoting critical thinking in upbringing, or just the mind reaching for the id and superego first, ego second.
Too much energy and focus is spent on the "what", "where", and "when"; not the "how"s and subsequent "why"s
We do it because looking upstream inevitably points towards uncomfortable and unpopular truths about genetics, IQ, etc. If you dig deep enough, you end up discovering immutable realities that are incompatible with polite society.
Feminists attack porn from the angle of sexual objectification and how it victimises them and their gender as a whole. I do know quite a lot about this, they don't use the porn addiction argument. It's almost exclusively right wingers wingers that I've seen make the porn addiction argument. This is why they view by comparison OnlyFans as empowering because they financially benefit from the male attention given.
This is my view as well that watching porn is very much of a symptom of the lack of any real relationship with women. Men have a sexual desire they're never going to get rid of no matter how much these ideological groups try. Will either groups address this? No and when they do they simply shame men and then move on. Either men are evil pigs who need to learn how to express their emotions more therefore their problems will automatically be fixed or they simply need to 'go outside' and they'll magically find women to talk to.
I'm a single guy in my 30's and I can tell you both statements about men are bullshit because I'm somebody who doesn't have social anxiety or anything like that. The struggle is very real to meet new people and you do have to be on your guard for crazies, it's mostly boomers and generation x'ers who make these points too which is how I know they're probably almost always married guys who are in their safe space family hug boxes and have no idea how bad it is.
When even the gymbros are avoiding contact with women as well as a result of false accusations by attention seeking thots you have a major problem on your hands. Same goes for professional men as well that are going to be way higher on the desirability ladder for a long term partner assuming any of those really exist anymore now they've largely been drummed out of society thanks to nepotistic diversity hiring practices.
I'm ranting and this isn't necessarily against you or anything, just a major source of frustration for me on why I take the piss out of both sides, they've got no fucking idea how bad it is. Gaming is one of the few things that's kept me sane over the decades which is why I will always defend it because it provides me an outlet for my stress.
True up until recently. There's a recent trend of leftist adults getting mad at artists who cater to relatively normal heterosexual men, and they attack by siccing minors on them. That crowd uses it as well, probably because most everyone they're going after have social media accounts consisting entirely of porn.
Thanks for that information, in my defence, that seems pretty niche I do know there's been screeching about artists drawing lewds but from what I knew it was still from the objectifying women angle so that's interesting to know.
Bro, have you not heard of no-fap?
The best entertainment I've gotten out of NNN is watching gooners freak out about it.
You'd think they'd just shrug and move on, but apparently having self-discipline to not masturbate for a month or so will personally offend them to the point they need to name and shame.
Most men have no hope of getting a woman and any woman we could get would be a landwhale who weighs twice as much as us, is a financial, doesn't want kids and has no reason to stay loyal. What's there to gain besides humiliation?