It makes no sense as a man to marry a woman at all unless she is far richer than you, let’s be real. Outside of emotional/religious reasons, there is literally no upside for a man. If you’re the type of man who can score with women, you can get them to have your children and stick around without getting officially married anyway. If you can’t get laid/have children without getting a woman to marry you first, she’s planning on leaving/divorce raping you eventually anyway. It’s unfortunate, but officially tying the knot with a woman just makes it easier for you to get fucked over later on when she decides to leave (which, statistically speaking she will). But is she’s super rich, head to the chapel I guess because then if she leaves you get the payout… but how often does that scenario play out?