Waaaaay more than 8% of men are completely unable to date/build relationships/fuck/get married/whatever you want to call it.

Last I saw the male virginity rate at 30 years old is about 20%; vs. the female virginity rate at 30 being 1-2%. This is somewhat old data; I think from like 2018 or 2020; surely those numbers are only getting worse for men.

20% is the virginity rate btw. I talk to plenty of young men that basically never get laid and can't get into a long term relationship despite having good jobs and being (no homo) pretty good looking young fellas. The dating game is beyond fucked. If 20% are virgins at 30 (which is a fact); I'd ballpark about 40% of men (under 40ish) not being able to form a long term relationship or ever get married.

Where are you getting this idea that less than 10% of men struggle with dating or getting laid? I live in the US so maybe it's different where you're from.