I am Christian and married myself, though I absolutely understand why many men would avoid that lifestyle these days. Marrying the wrong person is a cheat code to ruining your life and there are a lot more wrong people out there than right people.
Sometimes I watch Sam Hyde's streams where he creates a burner account on bumble or tinder and spends hours swiping. It's brutal out there for single guys. If something happened to my wife I'd probably never try to date again. I have no idea how to prepare my son to navigate all this either.
Tell him what my father told me when I was 13, pray that the Lord lead you to a good wife and help you along the way. I definitely was guided and won the lottery with my wife. I gave the same advice to both my sons. I'd love to say they followed it to the letter, but they both got married more because they were afraid they'd never find the right woman. One definitely found his soulmate. She's far from perfect but they definitely go together. The other, the jury is still out, and we have had our moments of concern that she'll bail for purely selfish reasons.
I am Christian and married myself, though I absolutely understand why many men would avoid that lifestyle these days. Marrying the wrong person is a cheat code to ruining your life and there are a lot more wrong people out there than right people.
Yup. Feminism has ruined women, and the few good ones left are naturally taken.
Sometimes I watch Sam Hyde's streams where he creates a burner account on bumble or tinder and spends hours swiping. It's brutal out there for single guys. If something happened to my wife I'd probably never try to date again. I have no idea how to prepare my son to navigate all this either.
Tell him what my father told me when I was 13, pray that the Lord lead you to a good wife and help you along the way. I definitely was guided and won the lottery with my wife. I gave the same advice to both my sons. I'd love to say they followed it to the letter, but they both got married more because they were afraid they'd never find the right woman. One definitely found his soulmate. She's far from perfect but they definitely go together. The other, the jury is still out, and we have had our moments of concern that she'll bail for purely selfish reasons.