This is exactly the case. The world will beat the shit out of you - and the people listening for your woes aren't usually your friends. When the mask eventually comes off you find that you were surrounded by a hierarchy of vultures and that all of your compassionate projections were misplaced. It's the same fuckin' game.
Man's gotta be useful, for better or for worse. Repel them.
Forget about useful, you've got to be very careful about who you pick and choose as your friends. As we've seen for ourselves even those at the very top can get stabbed in the back at a moments notice and have their lives completely ripped from them and get told they're misogynists for hating being treated that way.
I learned a lot about feminists and people who subscribe to their ideology from MRAs and I've also had to deal with feminists trying to use this shit on me on reddit in the past. This whole feelings mantra is a load of shit the feminists are trying to feed honest men who are wanting to improve themselves and get a girlfriend. You've got their mentality perfectly and I've given examples myself on this site of precisely why you don't open up to women as this moron is advocating unless you implicitly trust them.
This is something I had to explain a lot to women who wanted to understand men properly and weren't feminists. They couldn't understand that men never open up to people they don't trust because women share everything amongst themselves. Also shocker, women also tend to stab each other in the back as a result and get really nasty over it. I think that's also why from a society perspective men's groups often tend to be way more tight-knit. At least when they aren't fucking horrific male feminist simps.
As we've seen for ourselves even those at the very top can get stabbed in the back at a moments notice and have their lives completely ripped from them and get told they're misogynists for hating being treated that way.
Sometimes "careful" isn't enough. Now, my analogue of "vulture", that was no coincidence - they are attracted to the smells of the dead and dying. Only things of their like enjoy a vulnerable man.
They surround themselves with losers because people who live with any actual certainty repel them or move on too fast for them to keep up. You pick yourself up out of the dirt, bat away the flies and the vultures, and keep moving. Let them eat someone else's corpse.
The people you want to meet in this life don't usually stop for a deadman anyhow. Never met anyone worth a damn while feeling sorry for myself, you don't always get to keep them either.
You become unattractive to vultures by never showing them vulnerability, and by merit of being their better. Those who know about that hidden dagger aren't likely to be stabbed so easily.
We're only human at the end of the day, it's about balance, the feminists seem to have an extreme obsession with 'share your feelings' as a solution and I agree this probably is emotional manipulation, but I just find it interesting women don't understand how much men have to lose generally.
It's when they realise what men go through that they become extremely sympathetic and depressed alongside them and the pestering about this immediately stops. Then there are the ones who go into denial and are really nasty about it usually that's a lot of people on the left but some on the right too who try and shame men over their choices.
You see this with women who find out just how bad it is for men who get falsely accused. Once they either see it for themselves RL or learn about it they immediately convert and are deadset against feminists, that's why the majority of anti-feminist women tend to be wives, mothers or sisters.
This is exactly the case. The world will beat the shit out of you - and the people listening for your woes aren't usually your friends. When the mask eventually comes off you find that you were surrounded by a hierarchy of vultures and that all of your compassionate projections were misplaced. It's the same fuckin' game.
Man's gotta be useful, for better or for worse. Repel them.
Forget about useful, you've got to be very careful about who you pick and choose as your friends. As we've seen for ourselves even those at the very top can get stabbed in the back at a moments notice and have their lives completely ripped from them and get told they're misogynists for hating being treated that way.
I learned a lot about feminists and people who subscribe to their ideology from MRAs and I've also had to deal with feminists trying to use this shit on me on reddit in the past. This whole feelings mantra is a load of shit the feminists are trying to feed honest men who are wanting to improve themselves and get a girlfriend. You've got their mentality perfectly and I've given examples myself on this site of precisely why you don't open up to women as this moron is advocating unless you implicitly trust them.
This is something I had to explain a lot to women who wanted to understand men properly and weren't feminists. They couldn't understand that men never open up to people they don't trust because women share everything amongst themselves. Also shocker, women also tend to stab each other in the back as a result and get really nasty over it. I think that's also why from a society perspective men's groups often tend to be way more tight-knit. At least when they aren't fucking horrific male feminist simps.
Sometimes "careful" isn't enough. Now, my analogue of "vulture", that was no coincidence - they are attracted to the smells of the dead and dying. Only things of their like enjoy a vulnerable man.
They surround themselves with losers because people who live with any actual certainty repel them or move on too fast for them to keep up. You pick yourself up out of the dirt, bat away the flies and the vultures, and keep moving. Let them eat someone else's corpse.
The people you want to meet in this life don't usually stop for a deadman anyhow. Never met anyone worth a damn while feeling sorry for myself, you don't always get to keep them either.
You become unattractive to vultures by never showing them vulnerability, and by merit of being their better. Those who know about that hidden dagger aren't likely to be stabbed so easily.
We're only human at the end of the day, it's about balance, the feminists seem to have an extreme obsession with 'share your feelings' as a solution and I agree this probably is emotional manipulation, but I just find it interesting women don't understand how much men have to lose generally.
It's when they realise what men go through that they become extremely sympathetic and depressed alongside them and the pestering about this immediately stops. Then there are the ones who go into denial and are really nasty about it usually that's a lot of people on the left but some on the right too who try and shame men over their choices.
You see this with women who find out just how bad it is for men who get falsely accused. Once they either see it for themselves RL or learn about it they immediately convert and are deadset against feminists, that's why the majority of anti-feminist women tend to be wives, mothers or sisters.
If men shared our feelings we'd be thrown in prison on bullshit charges.