"If you want to be a slave for all your life, base all your decisions purely on what makes a bunch of strangers feel subjectively more comfortable with their own neuroses. The only way to be a decent human being is becoming as close to a lapdog as possible.

But I'm not a slave so will only listen to complaints within an objective moral framework and will include my own wants and happiness in my decisions about whether or not to tolerate delusional whining."