I figured it would be interesting/ enlightening to hear from users who have found happy relationships in modern society and how they met. I know how much we love to make hating posts on the stupidity of modernity, but posts from guys that have successfully found stable relationships despite the cultural zeitgeist is just as important/ informative.
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So you want to hear stories of only the outliers?
The problem is that the majority of men either cannot find a relationship because of unrealistic expectations from women or they get into a relationship that fails because the woman found an option that she thinks is better.
Western society incentivizes women to have unrealistic expectations and to not value loyalty to their partner.
I am about 5'10. I am average in terms of facial aesthetics and I am an Asian American who is in decent shape. I might as well be invisible when it comes to female standards on online dating apps.
Most women I meet in real life are psychotic progressives and thus I find them very unattractive.
My standards for a girlfriend would be to not be a progressive and to not be fat and age ranging from 5 years younger than me to the same age as me. I am in my 30s.
Based on probability I likely will die alone and I have accepted it. I am fine with being MGTOW and not dealing with the absolute cancer that is most modern women.
This is not the feel-good response you were expecting but too bad. Life is not fair and western society has gone to hell.
Fuck clown world.
No the OP doesn’t want to hear yet another sob story about how rich, handsome, & built you are and still can’t manage to land anyone. We know; it sucks & is not fair. Being average must be 100x worse. We get it. But sometimes shit does work out. So let’s hear how they did it.
You don't want to hear about the reality of how it is for the majority of men who are average looking guys and are middle class.
I accept the skewed reality of the current sexual marketplace.
We live in an unfair clown world. No amount of complaining from me or anyone else will change anything.
It seems some people here want to just cope and hear only about the feel good outliers.
Survivorship bias - history is written by the winners (as determined by society and evolution. Both deem people in relationships and starting families to be the winner).