Had a nice fwb situation for a few years but that's over now, so against my better judgement I hopped back into the online dating scene; and holy shit there are so many women who straight up say they expect a man to go to therapy.
It's not like I haven't seen this before, but nothing to this degree. I see it all the damn time now.
Therapy might have some worth in cases for people with actual mental issues, but the idea that most people should not only see a therapist but regularly see a therapist is fucking absurd.
Not sure if anyone else has seen the same. It's pretty clear that continual therapy is fully entrenched as a key component of the religion of woke.
I thought I had issues when it comes to finding a girlfriend but am I glad I stuck to my coffee first rule with this one because this dishonest bullshit from women pisses me off to no end and I am not happy this kind of thing is becoming more common and why I stay away from dating sites. Not only have men long suspected that women who do this are fucking liars, it is now thanks to the fact that they endlessly gossip online and can't help themselves it is documented that they're fucking liars.
Feminist women are especially guilty of this and yes it's a good way to check for them. If she starts talking about fee fees and how men need to cry more they're gaslighting. For some reason feminists and it was very obviously feminists got very aggressive with this in the MRA sub and it's interesting this tactic has now spread to dating sites.
Women not only do not want men to talk about their feelings and cry/be more feminine. The ones who claim they do are searching for weakness and I have no problem calling out as fucking evil and psychologically manipulative because that was a major vibe I was getting from them when they concern trolled.
Some horror stories I've read about this sort of thing are things like when some bitch posted up on reddit she was trying to get a guy to open up more about himself and he admitted to her he was raped ( can't remember whether it was by a man or a woman but still you get the picture ) and she admitted she couldn't find him attractive anymore. This was a rape victim and the bitch just immediately stabbed him in the back when he opened up to her about something really serious.
Even as awkward as I am with women I would never advocate closing yourself off entirely from people you know, even I know that's not healthy. However as guys will know reputation is everything for a man so if you have some bitch digging around your personal life and trying to find out about you like that as if she's fishing for weakness boot her out of everything.
This is something that really does rile me up for real actually because it's fucking evil and imagine doing that with a guy you date and telling him to piss away money on a therapist when he doesn't need it in order to make him doubt himself and his sanity constantly. What a bunch of fucking horrible women and this is trending as well? Fuck that I may as well qualify as a buddhist monk these days. This is definitely something I would class as domestic abuse and I'm quite careful about bandying that term around these days. Don't even interact with women who pull this, it's not worth it.
Oh shit I remember that one. I think it was either in r/confessions or r/deadbedrooms.
They say this shit and then attack any sign of male emotion more viciously than anything I've ever seen from even old hard asses in the south
Exactly, it's a trap, in more ways than one. The worse thing is though it doesn't seem like that women are even necessarily aware they do this. You've got the ones that do it because they're manipulative and then the ones who don't realise it's a turn off for them as other guys have mentioned. That's how deep the feminist brainwashing is with a lot of them and it is all down to feminism because they've tried to teach them to go against their instinct of what they find attractive in a man. Which I think is also partly why they're so fucking dishonest about it so much of the time.
Pretty much. It’s objectively a bad thing for all involved, but in most cases, I don’t think it’s a conscious act of manipulation or malice. I think a lot of women really believe that crying and therapy and vulnerability in general are things men should embrace, or at least be more comfortable with. It’s just that when they get it, human nature kicks in and they find it unappealing, because what it communicates is instability and weakness.
It’s not like men are more comfortable or better off crying in front of other men; the other men lose respect for them as well. Again, it’s too bad that it is this way, but that doesn’t change that it is the reality, and it benefits few to lie about it.
I mean tbh rape victims are usually nut cases so I wouldn't wanna be with them either.
Ask me how I know.