Had a nice fwb situation for a few years but that's over now, so against my better judgement I hopped back into the online dating scene; and holy shit there are so many women who straight up say they expect a man to go to therapy.
It's not like I haven't seen this before, but nothing to this degree. I see it all the damn time now.
Therapy might have some worth in cases for people with actual mental issues, but the idea that most people should not only see a therapist but regularly see a therapist is fucking absurd.
Not sure if anyone else has seen the same. It's pretty clear that continual therapy is fully entrenched as a key component of the religion of woke.
Exactly, it's a trap, in more ways than one. The worse thing is though it doesn't seem like that women are even necessarily aware they do this. You've got the ones that do it because they're manipulative and then the ones who don't realise it's a turn off for them as other guys have mentioned. That's how deep the feminist brainwashing is with a lot of them and it is all down to feminism because they've tried to teach them to go against their instinct of what they find attractive in a man. Which I think is also partly why they're so fucking dishonest about it so much of the time.
Pretty much. It’s objectively a bad thing for all involved, but in most cases, I don’t think it’s a conscious act of manipulation or malice. I think a lot of women really believe that crying and therapy and vulnerability in general are things men should embrace, or at least be more comfortable with. It’s just that when they get it, human nature kicks in and they find it unappealing, because what it communicates is instability and weakness.
It’s not like men are more comfortable or better off crying in front of other men; the other men lose respect for them as well. Again, it’s too bad that it is this way, but that doesn’t change that it is the reality, and it benefits few to lie about it.