Like... if he is honest about how he feels about boundaries in a relationship, why is that abusive? As long as she is given those clearly, and she can decide how to proceed, then I see no reason why it would be abuse.
Not saying I agree with him, but that's irrelevant.
You'd be surprised how dumb modern women can be about relationship boundaries. I've seen married women with kids just wearing yoga pants so thin you can can very clearly see the pantylines. The husband just goes along with it and this is in a supposed conservative asian country. Its much worse in the west
Some really are NPCs who can't objectively gauge whether a certain action is objectionable. They observe too-tight yoga pants becoming mainstream and add it to their wardrobe, as popularity is their only barometer.
A continuation of baseline behavior is consciously seeing how a woman reacts to reasonable and unreasonable feedback. If she's swallowed the propaganda that conflicting preferences are "controlling behaviors", just walk out before any argument brews. If she's an emotionally tangled people pleaser, she's not contributing to the relationship and is just as bad as the "modern woman".
Woe to any man who doesn't figure this shit out past 25 years of age.
Like... if he is honest about how he feels about boundaries in a relationship, why is that abusive? As long as she is given those clearly, and she can decide how to proceed, then I see no reason why it would be abuse.
Not saying I agree with him, but that's irrelevant.
It is his fault for explicitly stating his boundaries and expecting her to abide by them.
She should be so afraid of losing him that she restricts her own actions before they came anywhere near to the edges of his sensibilities.
But that obviously isn't the case.
You'd be surprised how dumb modern women can be about relationship boundaries. I've seen married women with kids just wearing yoga pants so thin you can can very clearly see the pantylines. The husband just goes along with it and this is in a supposed conservative asian country. Its much worse in the west
They aren't dumb, they are attention whores. It is a shit test to see if their current guy is "man enough" to tell her "no".
Some really are NPCs who can't objectively gauge whether a certain action is objectionable. They observe too-tight yoga pants becoming mainstream and add it to their wardrobe, as popularity is their only barometer.
A continuation of baseline behavior is consciously seeing how a woman reacts to reasonable and unreasonable feedback. If she's swallowed the propaganda that conflicting preferences are "controlling behaviors", just walk out before any argument brews. If she's an emotionally tangled people pleaser, she's not contributing to the relationship and is just as bad as the "modern woman".
Woe to any man who doesn't figure this shit out past 25 years of age.