Trying to control a woman's source of income (by removing half the population as potential clients) is abusive, yes. Saying she can't post pics in a bathing suit to her Insta (I don't think the thong thing is as bad) is controlling & thus abusive, yes.
But definitely pathetic he doesn't trust her around other men.
I mean, you are. You said controlling is abusive, full stop. That means any attempt to alter a woman's behavior, no matter how atrocious said behavior is, qualifies as abuse.
None of that is abusive lol
Unreasonable? Sure
Pathetic? Okay
You can call it many things, but "abusive" isn't one of them.
Abuse is another one of those words that's been used improperly to the point that it no longer holds the weight or meaning it once did.
It's almost like its been... Hm.... I know there's a word for it, but I can't quite put my finger on it.
Trying to control a woman's source of income (by removing half the population as potential clients) is abusive, yes. Saying she can't post pics in a bathing suit to her Insta (I don't think the thong thing is as bad) is controlling & thus abusive, yes.
But definitely pathetic he doesn't trust her around other men.
So if your wife wants to bang other dudes for money, and you try to stop her, that's abusive?
You're seriously doing to compare surfing lessons to prostitution?
I mean, you are. You said controlling is abusive, full stop. That means any attempt to alter a woman's behavior, no matter how atrocious said behavior is, qualifies as abuse.
You said attempting to control her ability to earn money is abusive. I was using an extreme example to show his retarded that is.