I’d like to co-sign on this statement as well. It will be very rare indeed for someone to get as far as bottom surgery without participating heavily in online “support” forums (i.e. grooming grounds). Find me one who never piled on to a skeptic or joined the forum members in a Twitter brigade against a “bigot” talking sense, and I might have a sliver of sympathy. I doubt we’d ever be able to find such a person.