At this point, it's less "me me me" and more "I'm not your patsy".

The custodians of most nations, churches and communities have all failed woefully, they've been corrupted from joint projects that everyone contributes to and benefit from, they're Ponzi schemes that enslave the common man for the sole benefit of some elitist asshole. It's not selfish to tell them to fuck off at this point, it's just good sense.

The not wanting kids one is a little greyer, but it's also understandable that people are not excited by the prospect of making all the necessary sacrifices to raise children, when the current trend in government is about walling you off from your kids and conditioning them to mutilate themselves and hate you.