Blaming masturbation or porn is like blaming someone for opening a window on a hot summer's day; therefore, letting flies in because they don't have air conditioning. If you don't want them to open the window then get them air conditioning. Saying the reason they can't get air conditioning is because they have flies in their house from opening the window is bullshit. Get them air conditioning and then they won't open the window and they won't get flies in their house.
I'm not blaming the act of masturbation. I'm concerned with the psychological issue of having it part of your day to day routine. Coom brain is very very much a thing. Why do you think there are so many fucking people financing cam whores? It is fucking over men on a global scale.
Yes, shit women are repelling men from entering into relationships, but so is the issue of succumbing to self gratification by just getting their fix from a distance. The two problems have similar symptoms, but they are also separate diseases.
The discussion is worth having but you're looking at the issue with too much equality lens.
You're going okay women are causing x problem but there's also Y problem that needs to be factored in with equal weight. You have your weights wrong. It's 90% women and 10% other problems so there should be no 50/50 compromise.
Men that seek out virtual whores do so because the men lack a real life whore. Simple as. Every woman has the capability to be any one man's whores. We used to call this a wife. Women simply don't want this role anymore unless they're getting paid insane amounts of money. Money most guys don't have so they turn to virtual mediums to get their fix at a cheaper cost.
We have a supply and demand issue. Given the level of demand for women that men have, women have too limited of a supply. We either need to reduce men's demand or increase women's supply.
Many who target masturbation or porn believe these two things increase men's demand for sex but there's nothing to prove that. If anything, it reduces men's demand for sex. Regardless, why should we even reduce men's demand for sex? Why don't we focus on increasing women's supply?
Can't both things exist as their own separate issue?
Blaming masturbation or porn is like blaming someone for opening a window on a hot summer's day; therefore, letting flies in because they don't have air conditioning. If you don't want them to open the window then get them air conditioning. Saying the reason they can't get air conditioning is because they have flies in their house from opening the window is bullshit. Get them air conditioning and then they won't open the window and they won't get flies in their house.
I'm not blaming the act of masturbation. I'm concerned with the psychological issue of having it part of your day to day routine. Coom brain is very very much a thing. Why do you think there are so many fucking people financing cam whores? It is fucking over men on a global scale.
Yes, shit women are repelling men from entering into relationships, but so is the issue of succumbing to self gratification by just getting their fix from a distance. The two problems have similar symptoms, but they are also separate diseases.
The discussion is worth having but you're looking at the issue with too much equality lens.
You're going okay women are causing x problem but there's also Y problem that needs to be factored in with equal weight. You have your weights wrong. It's 90% women and 10% other problems so there should be no 50/50 compromise.
Men that seek out virtual whores do so because the men lack a real life whore. Simple as. Every woman has the capability to be any one man's whores. We used to call this a wife. Women simply don't want this role anymore unless they're getting paid insane amounts of money. Money most guys don't have so they turn to virtual mediums to get their fix at a cheaper cost.
We have a supply and demand issue. Given the level of demand for women that men have, women have too limited of a supply. We either need to reduce men's demand or increase women's supply.
Many who target masturbation or porn believe these two things increase men's demand for sex but there's nothing to prove that. If anything, it reduces men's demand for sex. Regardless, why should we even reduce men's demand for sex? Why don't we focus on increasing women's supply?
China had excess females and it didn't work out well