Okay, there is a serious answer to this question.

If your concern is getting all of your shit and your kids taken when the woman you married gets caught banging Tyrone; there is an actual, well thought out answer.

You can regularly visit either the Dominican Republic or the Philippines. Cost of living is low, women are old fashioned "traditional". There are lots of very pretty, nice, faithful ladies around who will be thrilled to spend time with you.

There are also lots of sluts who just want your money, but that is on you.

Find a great woman. Get a cheap apartment, set up a second home. Send an allowance every month to your lady. You can have kids whenever you want.

If you have a decent job, you can visit more than four times a year. You can video chat every night.

If she is unfaithful, just stop paying the rent and cut off her allowance. The kid is her problem, with no consequences.

If she is everything you hoped she would be, by the time your kid is in high school you can make arraignments for her and your kid to get citizenship to the USA. Marry her or whatever. Help your daughter get an apprenticeship as a specialist plumber or refrigeration mechanic. Help your kid start a business. Retire to the Dominican Republic.

This method lets you reward a good and faithful partner, it is affordable and the flights are cheap. It basically fixes the marriage contract.

The hard part is to not settle down with the first woman who throws her pussy at you. Don't have a kid until you really, really mean it. Being a father is incredibly rewarding, but walking out on your child is fucking brutal, even if there are no consequences for you, even if the mother deserves it, for whatever reason.

Do NOT settle for a woman who already has kids. Don't raise someone else's child.

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