It really has very little to do with men "being owed sex" by women. Most men don't really believe they're owed sex by women, or anyone for that matter. The big issue is that society has placed such an emphasis on premarital sex and random hookups and casual sex that young men are beginning to feel like if they aren't having sex they are missing out on an integral part of life, which is not the case.
Sure, there are definitely men out there who truly believe that women are simply there to please them and be their slaves, but that is not the case for the vast majority of men, even so-called incels. They have simply been led to believe that sex is an amazing, huge part of life, that it is integral to a normal life and, while it is important to a healthy relationship, it's not necessary to live a normal life.
It also comes back, in a way, to the destruction of traditional masculinity. If they can convince millions of men that sex is the only thing that matters, that it is the most important part of a relationship and of life, then that's all they're going to care about. They're not going to focus on other things such as learning new skills or trade or bettering themselves in some other way.
Of course, the funny part of all this is that by convincing men that sex is the only thing that matters, they are completely reducing women to only being important in a sexual way. Although, I suppose that's part of the plan too. After all, we can't have women being motherly figures or caring individuals in a household or in life in general. We have to have them choose careers that debase them and destroy their mental well-being. It really is all connected I guess. The destruction of the family unit, the destruction of traditional masculinity, the destruction of traditional femininity, the sexualization of children... It really does circle back to the destruction of traditional values in a way that lets them swoop in and replace traditional morality with some sort of perverted new age "progressive" morality.
Anyway, that's my $0.02
That’s true and I used to be very shy with women. Although I generally have seen young girls go wild for the bad boy and then in their 30s want a responsible guy. Although by then they usually have kids
I think young women see most of the qualities they value in a “bad guy” and are driven by their natural impulses without actually having the ability to judge good character, or having the wisdom to understand the hazard of giving yourself to someone of bad character.
We’re talking about natural impulses here… but for most human civilizations throughput history, women’s partners — and sometimes men’s as well — were determined by their parents or by another third party. This used the wisdom of adults to filter out the bad eggs ahead of time. The truth is, young women are absolutely terrible at picking the right partners. Men too, to some degree, but men don’t have anywhere near the number of options that women do at that age, so it’s less of an issue.
It's not so much that they want to the responsible guy. It's that by then they've finally figured out that Chad will never commit and they need someone to pay for all their bad decisions. MGTOW is such a threat to them because it raises the spectre that they'll be deprived of their meal ticket and they'll actually have to face the consequences of their actions.
It’s not that either. Slutty women “settle down” in their 30s because high value men no longer want to fuck them. That’s it. If an 8 could stay an 8 forever, she’d never get off the cock carousel.
Now a slurry.m woman might see her expulsion coming and take steps to secure her landing years before the wall, but that doesn’t mean she had a genuine change of heart. She was just quitting before the dating market fired her.