Prior I was never the way I resigned myself to be currently and my life is much easier for it. So far so good.

It doesn't mean not showing reciprocation of these very jungian ideations of anima and animus in other ways - I simply don't do it in a way that threatens stability or the bigger picture.

There are some burdens a man should absolutely bare alone, sure a good woman wants to be your partner in crime but I don't think women are nearly as interested in male feelings as they say they are.

Once that's on the table, if that interest is misplaced, you're a "high-maintenance" male.