"We're coming for your kids," "I'll make your kids trans," "I'm a proud groomer, and I teach your kids, lol," and "we'll turn your kids gay and you'll have to deal with it" are all not threats and, if you have any objections, you're homophobic and transphobic.
"We will adopt your baby" is a threat.
"We're coming for your kids," "I'll make your kids trans," "I'm a proud groomer, and I teach your kids, lol," and "we'll turn your kids gay and you'll have to deal with it" are all not threats and, if you have any objections, you're homophobic and transphobic.