1, They could refuse.
2, You would still blame a woman if it was a man telling them what to do, because you always do that.

I'm not a fan of Ukraine, partially because I live right next to Ukraine, my country shares a border with them and has a territory that belonged to us before WW1. They treat their Hungarian minority like shit.

But you are doing your typical thing with blaming women for everything when it's a complex historical and political topic.
You claim you see the pieces and shit, but it sounds more and more like paranoid ramblings.