There's a neurosis attached to this state that spawns back to the lack of emotional affection these women received growing up from their mother (that or they're literal man-haters, but given that your ex dated you, she likely falls into the maternal attention-deficient group).

Yeah, it was a learned lesson for me, I learned the type of woman to avoid from her. Lesibanism was just one aspect. There were many more reasons that looking back at the relationship I should have avoided her. But she was really fun to be with, it was an ego boost to be with someone who had a complete infatuation with you and wanted sex more than you did.