It's r/mypartneristrans. Holy shit. These people actually fuck troons. They've accomplished the Herculean task of finding an even more disgusting fetish than autogynephilia.
I have a list of Faggit subs and lulzy retards that produce so much content that would be relevant here that I have to restrain myself from posting everything I find from those sources to avoid spamming the site. r/menslib is great to point and laugh at the retards, and you can't find a better example of the degeneracy of Faggit than r/mypartneristrans. So yeah, I have a new addition to the list of sources I have to avoid the temptation to post the whole fucking site here. But here's a sample:
A real woman is married to a man who LARP's as a woman to make his pee pee hard. But when she takes the creature out in public a little girl points out what's obvious to everyone: Her fetishist husband is not a woman. He's just a man who won't keep his fetishes in the bedroom. Biological reality is so innate that even children can see it when they haven't been brainwashed by the pedo tranny cult.
I always say that normal people will always choose the ideology that doesn't require them to go down a man in drag over the one that does if it's presented in those terms. As you said they just haven't been confronted about it.