IDK, this doesn't sound rapey to me.
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I’m assuming since it was her boyfriend he was a similar age, simple fact of the matter is either she’s a whore or retarded. Can really say either without watching the video, but saying filmed “rape” is somehow blackmail on the rapee begs the former.
It works the other way to.
There's lot of stories in smaller communities with real people rather than propaganda and tv programs.
Some girls are the kind of girls that just like sex. Other girls use sex as an aggressive tool to get what they want - with the threat of telling others that the guy is being inappropriate if he doesn't give in. It's often not strictly blackmail - it sits on the careful line like "Oh you'd sleep with me but wouldn't take care of me? How mean and horrible of you. I'm going to tell others and stop sleeping with you because you deserve to be shamed." Does he want to keep getting sex? Yes, so he gives her stuff and she comes out ahead. It's the "buy a girl dinner" but on a larger scale.
iBecause this is a very conservative community One day it becomes so obvious the daughter is sleeping and other adults confront her parents and start shaming them. The parents go home and start yelling at their daughter. And what's the only defense to make a girl sympathetic for having slept with half the town? "It wasn't my fault someone forced me to do it".
It's the same defense that Theranos women is using "it's not my fault my abusive boyfriend forced me to lie to investors and tell them we had a miracle product".
Same dynamic.
We definitely don't know what happen.
I'm real tired of the one sidedness personally though.
These stories go either way.
Got it, you're a whore if you get raped and then blackmailed by your boyfriend, in a country where online posting of such a video would be deeply shameful to a woman.
Talking about being retarded.
How many logic hoops do you hamster through to get a video that’s proof of rape if the girl isn’t a lying whore and then say proof of rape can be used to blackmail the person that was raped!
There have been cases where the accused say it was roleplaying, or they agreed to it. They have investigators that have to watch this stuff and judge whether it was rape, or say, rape porn, simulated. I remember watching a documentary and you get to see the man who has to watch it, his reaction, but not what was on screen, and he was shocked, it was clearly rape. But that's how it is now, they say it was violent sex, wanted, or roleplaying, or they were both on drugs consensually, when it wasn't. Are there women who lie about rape? Sure. I hate them too, for making people believe others less when stuff like this happens. But don't take the anger out on actual victims because others lied.
On the other hand in our culture they're pushing to always blame the man "Scarlett letter" style whenever a woman sleeps around.
Sperging out online about it isn't going to resolve whatever really happened but these stories seem to get longer and longer and more ridiculous as time goes on. I mean really - what guy thinks to himself "you know what I really want to do is have my girlfriend fucked with the dick of every other guy I know". 99% of men find that just disgusting.
Right, because coming forward 32 dudes later is much less shameful. You’re literally arguing that the “shame” being video taped banging her boyfriend is somehow worth taking 32 other dudes up her cooch. Like I said, she’s either retarded or a whore.
People will do this when they are afraid, especially children, especially females. They don't reason it out. Maybe they threatened to show it to their friends or parents, so they would have to face the embarrassment, stigma. Maybe they were afraid no one would believe them. This happens a lot. They're not stupid, lying, or whores, they are victims. It's disgusting and evil that you think this way. Probably damaged yourself from watching too much porn.