IDK, this doesn't sound rapey to me.
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Waited 9 months to report it? Sounds like someone just got tired of a dead end job.
It's literally the third paragraph.
And the girl is 15. If this does not sound rapey to you, you must be a fan of Vaush.
I’m assuming since it was her boyfriend he was a similar age, simple fact of the matter is either she’s a whore or retarded. Can really say either without watching the video, but saying filmed “rape” is somehow blackmail on the rapee begs the former.
It works the other way to.
There's lot of stories in smaller communities with real people rather than propaganda and tv programs.
Some girls are the kind of girls that just like sex. Other girls use sex as an aggressive tool to get what they want - with the threat of telling others that the guy is being inappropriate if he doesn't give in. It's often not strictly blackmail - it sits on the careful line like "Oh you'd sleep with me but wouldn't take care of me? How mean and horrible of you. I'm going to tell others and stop sleeping with you because you deserve to be shamed." Does he want to keep getting sex? Yes, so he gives her stuff and she comes out ahead. It's the "buy a girl dinner" but on a larger scale.
iBecause this is a very conservative community One day it becomes so obvious the daughter is sleeping and other adults confront her parents and start shaming them. The parents go home and start yelling at their daughter. And what's the only defense to make a girl sympathetic for having slept with half the town? "It wasn't my fault someone forced me to do it".
It's the same defense that Theranos women is using "it's not my fault my abusive boyfriend forced me to lie to investors and tell them we had a miracle product".
Same dynamic.
We definitely don't know what happen.
I'm real tired of the one sidedness personally though.
These stories go either way.
Got it, you're a whore if you get raped and then blackmailed by your boyfriend, in a country where online posting of such a video would be deeply shameful to a woman.
Talking about being retarded.
How many logic hoops do you hamster through to get a video that’s proof of rape if the girl isn’t a lying whore and then say proof of rape can be used to blackmail the person that was raped!
Right, because coming forward 32 dudes later is much less shameful. You’re literally arguing that the “shame” being video taped banging her boyfriend is somehow worth taking 32 other dudes up her cooch. Like I said, she’s either retarded or a whore.
People can be afraid to come forward, take time to reason it out in their heads, that it's better to go to the cops, or get in a position where they can put some distance between them and their abuser, whatever. Point is, plenty of people don't go to the cops right away, or never do. It's a good thing you would, or think you would go, in a similar situation. but not everyone thinks the way you do.
I don't really care. India is a real shithole.