IDK, this doesn't sound rapey to me.
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Waited 9 months to report it? Sounds like someone just got tired of a dead end job.
It's literally the third paragraph.
And the girl is 15. If this does not sound rapey to you, you must be a fan of Vaush.
I’m assuming since it was her boyfriend he was a similar age, simple fact of the matter is either she’s a whore or retarded. Can really say either without watching the video, but saying filmed “rape” is somehow blackmail on the rapee begs the former.
It works the other way to.
There's lot of stories in smaller communities with real people rather than propaganda and tv programs.
Some girls are the kind of girls that just like sex. Other girls use sex as an aggressive tool to get what they want - with the threat of telling others that the guy is being inappropriate if he doesn't give in. It's often not strictly blackmail - it sits on the careful line like "Oh you'd sleep with me but wouldn't take care of me? How mean and horrible of you. I'm going to tell others and stop sleeping with you because you deserve to be shamed." Does he want to keep getting sex? Yes, so he gives her stuff and she comes out ahead. It's the "buy a girl dinner" but on a larger scale.
iBecause this is a very conservative community One day it becomes so obvious the daughter is sleeping and other adults confront her parents and start shaming them. The parents go home and start yelling at their daughter. And what's the only defense to make a girl sympathetic for having slept with half the town? "It wasn't my fault someone forced me to do it".
It's the same defense that Theranos women is using "it's not my fault my abusive boyfriend forced me to lie to investors and tell them we had a miracle product".
Same dynamic.
We definitely don't know what happen.
I'm real tired of the one sidedness personally though.
These stories go either way.
Got it, you're a whore if you get raped and then blackmailed by your boyfriend, in a country where online posting of such a video would be deeply shameful to a woman.
Talking about being retarded.
How many logic hoops do you hamster through to get a video that’s proof of rape if the girl isn’t a lying whore and then say proof of rape can be used to blackmail the person that was raped!
There have been cases where the accused say it was roleplaying, or they agreed to it. They have investigators that have to watch this stuff and judge whether it was rape, or say, rape porn, simulated. I remember watching a documentary and you get to see the man who has to watch it, his reaction, but not what was on screen, and he was shocked, it was clearly rape. But that's how it is now, they say it was violent sex, wanted, or roleplaying, or they were both on drugs consensually, when it wasn't. Are there women who lie about rape? Sure. I hate them too, for making people believe others less when stuff like this happens. But don't take the anger out on actual victims because others lied.
On the other hand in our culture they're pushing to always blame the man "Scarlett letter" style whenever a woman sleeps around.
Sperging out online about it isn't going to resolve whatever really happened but these stories seem to get longer and longer and more ridiculous as time goes on. I mean really - what guy thinks to himself "you know what I really want to do is have my girlfriend fucked with the dick of every other guy I know". 99% of men find that just disgusting.
Even 1 is disgusting. I don't even shit in public restrooms. I'm not sticking my dick in a public receptacle either.
Right, because coming forward 32 dudes later is much less shameful. You’re literally arguing that the “shame” being video taped banging her boyfriend is somehow worth taking 32 other dudes up her cooch. Like I said, she’s either retarded or a whore.
People will do this when they are afraid, especially children, especially females. They don't reason it out. Maybe they threatened to show it to their friends or parents, so they would have to face the embarrassment, stigma. Maybe they were afraid no one would believe them. This happens a lot. They're not stupid, lying, or whores, they are victims. It's disgusting and evil that you think this way. Probably damaged yourself from watching too much porn.
People can be afraid to come forward, take time to reason it out in their heads, that it's better to go to the cops, or get in a position where they can put some distance between them and their abuser, whatever. Point is, plenty of people don't go to the cops right away, or never do. It's a good thing you would, or think you would go, in a similar situation. but not everyone thinks the way you do.
I don't really care. India is a real shithole.
Rape is a foundational part of Indian culture and anyone who speaks against it is a white supremacist.
Some of these comments are disturbing and just completely lacking in reason. Like they can't fathom anyone doing something different than they might do, because everyone in the world must think the same way as them or something. I get it, women have been really key in screwing over men in the current political climate. That doesn't mean all, or any, women, deserve to be raped, or disbelieved automatically when they are raped, or that all women are liars. This stuff happens all the time. Women, men, kids, people get blackmailed like this. It's evil, and so cruel. They are not thinking straight, or don't know how, or have the courage to ask for help. The last thing they need is more people being abusive towards them. You don't fix the current political climate by reveling in the abuse of women and ultimately such things just give political enemies fuel to further abuse YOU, saying "see, see what bad people these are". i get you're upset about false accusations but you don't let real victims suffer to somehow make up for it. I think this is also indicative of what porn does to men's brains. And it has been studied, how it negatively changes how they view women and sexual assault, makes them callous like we're seeing here. This is the same type of crap brown gangs frequently use to abuse and enslave white women and children. They see people reacting like this and won't come forward and get help. i believe one of the grooming gang victims even went to the cops and they arrested her as a prostitute or something. Women are generally chicken *hit scared and easily frightened into this stuff. They need patriarchy for a reason. Don't behave like some *hitty thirdworlder who thinks this is ok, or dismiss it.
Rape is a legal definition that may not have anything to do with reality on the ground. Can we agree that there are cases where the law considers an event to be rape while neither of the participating parties would consider that any wrong occurred? For instance, in California if the woman you're fucking can blow a BAC of 0.04, you're raping her. A 0.04 BAC is less than one drink for a woman weighing in at 125lbs and less.
With that in mind, this girl's "rape" went on for 9 months with 33 men. At some point you gotta ask was she getting anything out of it that motivated her not to tell anyone? Blackmail you say? What changed between the point that she felt blackmailed enough she couldn't tell anyone and she no longer felt blackmailed enough so decided she could tell someone? What changed? That isn't answered, no will it ever be. To those purveying the story it's not important, rape is rape, right? Well, no, rape is not rape.
Without more information about the story it may legally be rape, but I as a critical thinking individual want more details because the situation as described seems odd and lacking material information.
The comments are just a reflection of a demoralized and jade population that no longer cares because we've reached levels of absurdity that not caring is the only way to cope. HONK HONK!