Around when did the idea that you can’t have an attractive woman in artwork or entertainment come about? Is the “male gaze” nonsense something fairly new? I remember seeing the “your just mad because you can’t jack off to it” not too long ago on gaming forums if someone pointed out that they seem to make women to look like men.
Yet I’ve heard plenty of women gushing over the Witcher because of Cavill or women who loved Mamoa in GOT and Aquaman. But if I say I’m going to see this movie because the lead actress is hot I’m sexist. Also, it’s interesting how stuff like romance novels have men with rippling muscles but women have to look “realistic”
I’ve heard plenty of women who tell men that have dating trouble that they should hit the gym.
Yeah it's a common joke how fat women will post on dating apps "sorry I don't date fat men" or a woman has no problem telling a guy to get fit if he wants to be with her, but if she's told to lose weight it's "HOW DARE YOU."