Insightful post on the zoomer generation and the internet
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That's kind of how I felt. I knew I was in this weird grey area where I was a male coworker, so I was outside of this lover/friend circle and they could let their guard down a bit.
The rest of the conversation was just as wild. "Oh, I thought you were staying at Guy A's apartment" "Oh, no, only when I don't want to pay for a taxi. I'm really more interested in Guy B but ... blah blah blah"
Just completely wild seeing and hearing behind the curtain. Repulsive, too, imo.
100%. Luckily I don't think I would go for women who would do that, but eh, a lot of women are like that these days.
You know, the dating market is absolutely messed up right now. I don't begrudge the men who say "screw it" and go mgtow or whatever. I probably wouldn't even think of bothering with it if I didn't want to raise a family one day.
Yep. 100% Sympathize with men who go their own way. I'm lucky in that I was able to travel, met a great non-American with goals to move to America and make something of herself. Best of both worlds, really.
If you're in America, try the red states where Conservative women still hold on to Conservative values. I know it might not seem as appealing, but farm girls and those who still do manual labor around a family-owned business are likely to be more level-headed and grounded if she has both her parents in her life (especially if both parents are hardworking and hold classic TradCon values).
Anything outside of the Little House on the Prairie and you're gambling with a potential thot.
Theres a lot more virtous young women out there than people think. But you have to go offline to find them, and they get snapped up quick.
You're kind of right.
They're not the norm biologically. They've always existed, sure, through a confluence of brain chemistry outliers and individual circumstances (childhood abuse?). Most women, as you know, want to continue the normal biological rhythm of humanity.
But these kids are bombarded from an early age with "sex positivity" and all the malignant notions that come from that. Sex immediately loses its value and gets warped. Young girls get hooked up to immediate and constant validation via social media, and that turns into a slutty lifestyle and a lack of understanding of what sex and love is supposed to be.
It's a really deep topic that I could go on and on about, but I won't do that here.
It's r/K breeding theory in action, honestly...
I don’t see anything on the page you linked on how this theory applies to mating strategies
A big part of it is that they’re also often put on mind, and, and body altering drugs such as birth control at very young ages. That’s a negative withholding even the fact that it makes having casual sex early and often with whoever the fuck more acceptable and with less possible long term consequences. This all changes everything immensely IMHO.
You really shouldn’t go on about it. You don’t know what you are talking about. All women are like that since the beginning of time. They are just as well behaved or not as the men around them allow them to be.
I'm sure the sex is fine, It's that it's like a bad movie with great effects. It looks appealing, and you might enjoy a moment or two, but you don't really care about the people involved, so it doesn't really satisfy you.
I know I know, " muh capeshit," but it's the best example I can think of. Compare the first Avengers movie to the Tom cruise Mummy Abomination.
The characters in the avengers have already been set up, so you're already invested in them to some degree or another, and the action scenes are reasonably well paced, and the slow points take the time they need without dragging things out. Far from perfect, but entertaining and you enjoy watching it. This is essentially what a good relationship is like. You actually care about the other person, so you're trying to please them as well as yourself. The emotional fulfillment is better than the sex.
With the Mummy movie, the effects are pretty good, the sets are impressive, but the action is stale, the characters are barely set up when they're actually set up, and by the end of it, you're disappointed when the main character doesn't die at the end, and not just because he's played by Tom cruise. This is your one night stand, an excuse to cut to the exciting stuff with no real appreciation or caring for anyone but yourself and what you can get out of it.
Reality is a motherfucker, and it often comes at you at the speed of light.
I have had many similar experiences, people just assume I'm western and therefore don't speak Mandarin, so they'll say that right in front of me.
No. It’s weak men not controlling the women. Letting women vote LOL it’s unbelievable how weak men are today. Pathetic. Letting tall children with tits run your society and politics.