Feminism is always about getting women to complain about what women do, using "men" as a metaphor. It's like you don't want to say "our boss is an ass for asking us to do support on the weekend" directly so say something like "oh I heard that so and so's boss in another company had them do support on the weekends, how awful" as a conversation with someone else that your boss "just happens" overhear.

Men's standards aren't that high.

It's always women's standards that are off the chart.

You'll notice that men in movies basically never makes mistakes, they almost never show emotions, when they act sociopathically they always come out ahead and no one ever seems to call them out or hold a grudge against them on it.