If all you're familiar with is dating apps and the poison that it attracts and girls indoctrinated against men by social media and their professors over several years, I can see how it would really burn some guys out making them turn to a 'safe' alternative.

On the other hand, I do know a small handful guys who invested in themselves, developed self confidence, and didn't compromise and are happily in relationships. Granted it also took far longer to find someone who fit their high standards.