Victim blaming has been one of the worst phrases that the left has decided is a real concept.

It's probably funny to some people here, since I learned this concept in college of all places. But the idea of co-creating outcomes is one of the biggest red pills I've ever had in my life, and I wish more people understood it. Abusive relationships, rape, getting robbed, etc. While it's unfortunate for those that are victims of them. They usually could've have done something to prevent it, fix it, get out of it.

That might sound harsh, but unless it's literally impossible to avoid. People need to be responsible for the situations they find themselves in. Or that they need to learn on how to keep it from happening again. Not be enabled or told that they did nothing wrong by their friends who don't want to hurt their feelings.