I'm not going to disagree with you that she is acting suspiciously wierd, only that my own reaction to a few sudden, tragic deaths in my family was "keep working like nothing happened" and it delayed any actual grieving for years. And that was work I willingly chose to take on, rather than a massive political movement people kept pushing onto me with expectations.

Avoidance through work is one thing. Melodramatic grieving is another.

I mean I still reserve a smidgen of doubt since what we're talking about is so monstrous, but I know something is very weird with her.