This is the gray area. It is not inherently bad, nor abnormal for women to desire attention. Any respectable person should feel validated and wanted. It is the execution however that defines them and how it is utilized to get what they want. Leaning on one's attractiveness for something healthy, such as a legitimate relationship for example. However, using it for the sake of wealth and status is the mark of the narcist.

It is important to not go full throttle in judgement. Understanding nuance is a fleeting skill that one mustn't allow to atrophy.