There doesn't seem to be anything new and exciting going on these days.
No fads taking everyone by storm. No new technology everyone is discussing (AI is pretty meh at the moment, especially with the censorship). No new entertainment everyone has to see.
Maybe I'm out of the loop but I don't feel I am. Anyone else kinda feel this way?
Look, you're stuck in a downward spiral of self loathing. I know, I was there myself, and I know very well just how hard it is to pull yourself out of that, but it CAN be done.
I think perhaps you may be looking to jump right to sex as the first step, but if you want to actually get there you're going to need to take the journey, and it's a long one for some of us.
The first step is actually being treated well enough to be given a chance.
You should treat yourself better.
Even just switching up your daily activities to improve the ratio of time spent with positive activities, rather than sedentary/lustful activities, can do quite a bit to improve your mood.
There really is nothing for me to do I just don't have the opportunities everyone else talks about.
Many of the most fulfilling activities, such as exercise, reading or making music/art are actually very accessible. Especially if you're thinking about searching for love, music is an excellent talent to develop.