There doesn't seem to be anything new and exciting going on these days.
No fads taking everyone by storm. No new technology everyone is discussing (AI is pretty meh at the moment, especially with the censorship). No new entertainment everyone has to see.
Maybe I'm out of the loop but I don't feel I am. Anyone else kinda feel this way?
My worldview is a product of my situation and how my entire life has gone, everything I've tried has resulted in failure and there's barely anything for me to even try in the first place.
Optimism doesn't create success, success creates optimism. I USED to be optimistic but that was beaten out of me by years of desperately trying to get a woman and watching life pass me by to the point that I'm a virgin at twice the age girls are losing theirs at and I'm legally denied the ability to even pursue those with a similar level of experience to me.
Success comes from moving in the right direction. Shutting down while you still have breath in your lungs is never the right direction.
After decades of constant failure in everything I try it really seems pointless to keep trying. My youth is passing me by, most of it's already gone and I have nothing to show for it because I was never given the opportunities I need and everyone else blames me for not somehow "creating" opportunities.
I've been trying and repeatedly getting knocked down for nearly 40 years now, but I've never given up, and through it all I've grown significantly.
If you want an idea for what can help, for myself I've been caring for an elderly friend of my mother's for the past year. This has been helping me build social skills which I missed as a child, especially in regards to how to interact with women properly.
That's just the difference. "getting knocked down" implies you were able to achieve a level of success to begin with, whereas I've never even had the sort of opportunities that everyone else takes for granted.
That won't do anything to get me a woman, social skills aren't my problem, lack of opportunity and inability to get my foot in the door are the main thing holding me back and it seems like nobody outside of dedicated incel forums can even understand what that's like.
Just wanted to hit this specific point... I'd suggest that you might instead look for someone your own age who is in an equally difficult situation, because you will actually be capable of relating to them, as they have been through the very same absolute bullshit as everyone in our generation has.
If you actually tried to form a union with someone of the age you're considering here, you would know very quickly just how badly you had fucked up, but it would be too late for you.
No such thing, women have effectively unlimited options as long as they aren't fat and are reasonably youthful(and even then there is no shortage of desperate men willing to settle for anything so the competition is still steep). People like you really don't understand the dynamics at play in a sexually "liberated" society
You desperately need to actually look at yourself in the mirror before it's too late.
You're caught in your imagination. The real world is vastly larger than what you're imagining, and there really are a whole hell of a lot of single women your age.
Not going to change anything about how fucked society is and how hopeless things are. All I ever wanted was a virgin wife to experience young teen love with and I'm forever denied the ability to experience that meanwhile they're all slutting around before they're even legal.