Judge isn't the (primary) issue here. His son is the prime issue. Anything that doesn't save his son is something that should at the very least be put on the back burner.
Talking to the judges would save everybody's sons. They are the ones taking the kids away from their parents in the first place. I would also be talking to the ex, but I would start with the judge.
This is going to go well 🙄
He should talk to the judge when she is off the clock to change her mind.
Judge isn't the (primary) issue here. His son is the prime issue. Anything that doesn't save his son is something that should at the very least be put on the back burner.
Talking to the judges would save everybody's sons. They are the ones taking the kids away from their parents in the first place. I would also be talking to the ex, but I would start with the judge.