as much as i hate the idea that all White women are just out to rob White men, addressing (literally - even beginning to speak about it) the issue of "divorce rape" in such a way so as to make men stop worrying about it so much would likely help marriages and child-rearing too.
The only way to meaningfully address "divorce rape" is to to have the children be exclusively in the father's custody by default. It follows that fathers should get 80% of the marital assets, because they must care for the children.
The reality is that the courts and society would still be stacked against fathers, but father's would still start negotiating from a much better position.
that's a bigger question than just marriages. do i see the world ever being good? yeah. might take a few calamities and might be outside my lifetime, but it'll get there eventually. the evils that plague us and amplify petty problems into serious issues are too obvious and the solutions too simple.
as much as i hate the idea that all White women are just out to rob White men, addressing (literally - even beginning to speak about it) the issue of "divorce rape" in such a way so as to make men stop worrying about it so much would likely help marriages and child-rearing too.
Of course. Divorce and single parenting is being encouraged by our legal system.
The only way to meaningfully address "divorce rape" is to to have the children be exclusively in the father's custody by default. It follows that fathers should get 80% of the marital assets, because they must care for the children.
The reality is that the courts and society would still be stacked against fathers, but father's would still start negotiating from a much better position.
Do you see this happening? Ever? I don't.
that's a bigger question than just marriages. do i see the world ever being good? yeah. might take a few calamities and might be outside my lifetime, but it'll get there eventually. the evils that plague us and amplify petty problems into serious issues are too obvious and the solutions too simple.