If they are really regretful they can be saved. Actually, legit get out campaigning, tell the world not to repeat the mistake. I can forgive people if they don't perpetuate the circle of death by saving others from the mistake. I get where your compassion is coming from. I just don't know if I could forgive people like that if they don't speak out. There probably are and those women I have sympathy for, I don't know how it is to be a woman so I can only guess. Losing a child is already horrible, making the choice to lose the child has got to be utterly soul crushing.
I just don't know if I could forgive people like that if they don't speak out.
Well that's the thing, I don't think I can forgive them either, but I can at least be understanding and sorry for the predicament, even if they put themselves in that situation. Which is why I also don't blame any individual for not wanting to constantly bring up something which could be legitimately traumatic (and I hate the fact using that word makes me feel like it's SocJus language when they've just twisted it so much). For many that don't speak up or even try to defend their abortions, I think it's a coping mechanism to avoid the reality of having to come to terms with the reality that they chose to end an innocent life, because having to face such a reality could utterly destroy them from the inside.
If they are really regretful they can be saved. Actually, legit get out campaigning, tell the world not to repeat the mistake. I can forgive people if they don't perpetuate the circle of death by saving others from the mistake. I get where your compassion is coming from. I just don't know if I could forgive people like that if they don't speak out. There probably are and those women I have sympathy for, I don't know how it is to be a woman so I can only guess. Losing a child is already horrible, making the choice to lose the child has got to be utterly soul crushing.
Well that's the thing, I don't think I can forgive them either, but I can at least be understanding and sorry for the predicament, even if they put themselves in that situation. Which is why I also don't blame any individual for not wanting to constantly bring up something which could be legitimately traumatic (and I hate the fact using that word makes me feel like it's SocJus language when they've just twisted it so much). For many that don't speak up or even try to defend their abortions, I think it's a coping mechanism to avoid the reality of having to come to terms with the reality that they chose to end an innocent life, because having to face such a reality could utterly destroy them from the inside.