Look, I'm all about self improvement but when below average women want the top 0.5% of men, it's time for society to start viewing the situation from the opposite lens. It's not men that need to improve themselves any more, it's women who need to set realistic expectations.
We as a society seemed to recognize that men had unrealistic standards for women and we told men to stop having them. Women don't need to be feminine, women don't need to a healthy weight, women don't need to want to have sex all the time and it's fine for women to wear pants, sweatshirts, get face tattoos and piercings everywhere.
Okay, great. Now it's time to tell women to lower their expectations. Men don't need to be 6' tall 5'4" guys are fine. Men don't need to earn $100k/yr. $20k/yr is fine. Men don't need need to be fit, fat men and skinny men are fine. Men don't need to be romantic or caring about a woman's emotions, men can be blunt, harsh and inconsiderate. Men don't need to not want sex all the time. It's okay for men to want sex all the time.
Women need to be taught to lower their standards. Women have unrealistic standards.
It's not men that need to improve themselves any more, it's women who need to set realistic expectations.
Close but not quite. Women need realistic expectations enforced on them. They're never going to arrive at the realization that they need to shape up. They're physically incapable of it. Instead we need at the very least a restoration of social pressures applied to them.
"Hey you're fat and ugly and you'll die alone and unloved and that makes you a horrible person."
They need the early reality check about their place on the SMV scale that men get without feminism pounding a sense of entitlement into their heads from birth. That's why pairing up in high school instead of letting women slut around was such a good system. It took the top 5 percenters out of the pool early instead of letting them run through all the women and delude them about their SMV.
We used to have suitors vetted by parents and peers in the past before a couple got serious in committing to one another. That concept has long gone. That's the difference.
Look, I'm all about self improvement but when below average women want the top 0.5% of men, it's time for society to start viewing the situation from the opposite lens. It's not men that need to improve themselves any more, it's women who need to set realistic expectations.
We as a society seemed to recognize that men had unrealistic standards for women and we told men to stop having them. Women don't need to be feminine, women don't need to a healthy weight, women don't need to want to have sex all the time and it's fine for women to wear pants, sweatshirts, get face tattoos and piercings everywhere.
Okay, great. Now it's time to tell women to lower their expectations. Men don't need to be 6' tall 5'4" guys are fine. Men don't need to earn $100k/yr. $20k/yr is fine. Men don't need need to be fit, fat men and skinny men are fine. Men don't need to be romantic or caring about a woman's emotions, men can be blunt, harsh and inconsiderate. Men don't need to not want sex all the time. It's okay for men to want sex all the time.
Women need to be taught to lower their standards. Women have unrealistic standards.
Close but not quite. Women need realistic expectations enforced on them. They're never going to arrive at the realization that they need to shape up. They're physically incapable of it. Instead we need at the very least a restoration of social pressures applied to them.
"Hey you're fat and ugly and you'll die alone and unloved and that makes you a horrible person."
Cruel you say? Maybe, but fair and accurate.
They need the early reality check about their place on the SMV scale that men get without feminism pounding a sense of entitlement into their heads from birth. That's why pairing up in high school instead of letting women slut around was such a good system. It took the top 5 percenters out of the pool early instead of letting them run through all the women and delude them about their SMV.
We used to have suitors vetted by parents and peers in the past before a couple got serious in committing to one another. That concept has long gone. That's the difference.