You have a happy relationship. Crowder does not. It is not fair for you to compare how he acts in his to how you act in yours.
Some people have more alpha personalities while others are doormats. It isn't the place of doormats to judge alphas because when an alpha gets in a shitty relationship, he gets confrontational & mean, while the doormat goes and cries in the corner. People have different ways to deal with shitty situations, and as long as there is no physical violence or extreme shit like Amber Heard, nobody has a right to judge just because they're different.
It doesn’t seem like he’s busy so why can’t he give the medicine and walk the dogs? Why does it have to be his pregnant wife? Why tell her to take an Uber? Why not him?
He's the breadwinner who does everything. He's entitled to chill for a minute. The whole point of the fight was that there is 1 car and he had shit to do, too, he he couldn't just be stuck there waiting for her to come back.
If I was internet famous I wouldn't want to be taking Ubers if I could avoid it.
As yourself this. If he says "take an Uber" - she's not paying for it - why doesn't she just say "ok fine that works" and leave? I'll tell you why: because she doesn't care about the car per se, it's a power struggle. She wants what she wants the way she wants it, and is willing to fight him over that. If she just wanted to run her errand & not fight, she'd just use the uber & be done with it. Yet she rejects that without giving a reason. He's right to react that it's a power struggle because that's exactly what it is.
If I was making millions per year & my girlfriend was stay at home pregnant, and I said "just take an uber", she just would without an argument. If she starts to fight and insist on her way, there is something else going on.
Your first point is completely useless. How would I be allowed to judge even if I’m in my own shitty relationship? Your second point is also useless because this leaves only two options. Be alpha or a doormat. And from the sounds of this entire argument you are trying to say I’m a doormat because I don’t act like Steven Crowder towards my own wife. Yeah you can fuck right off with all of that.
The rest of your argument is just dumbassery. Just because he’s famous and busy Monday-Thursday. The literal schedule for his show. Watch the Landau interview he did with Malice. Crowder doesn’t work on Fridays. The point being all of that still doesn’t excuse how he acts towards his pregnant wife. I’m saying pregnant wife because he still needs to look out for her health while she’s carrying his kids. So he needs to have restraint on his actions during that time. Afterwards the only restraint he needs to show is around his kids.
So if your wife who is high on hormones is 8 months pregnant, she can do or not do, and say whatever she wants and you can't do anything about it because she's pregnant? With that logic the world should be run by women in their third trimester because...she's pregnant. Next step...she's PMSing so you need to just let her do what she wants.
This is exactly the problem.
You have a happy relationship. Crowder does not. It is not fair for you to compare how he acts in his to how you act in yours.
Some people have more alpha personalities while others are doormats. It isn't the place of doormats to judge alphas because when an alpha gets in a shitty relationship, he gets confrontational & mean, while the doormat goes and cries in the corner. People have different ways to deal with shitty situations, and as long as there is no physical violence or extreme shit like Amber Heard, nobody has a right to judge just because they're different.
He's the breadwinner who does everything. He's entitled to chill for a minute. The whole point of the fight was that there is 1 car and he had shit to do, too, he he couldn't just be stuck there waiting for her to come back.
If I was internet famous I wouldn't want to be taking Ubers if I could avoid it.
As yourself this. If he says "take an Uber" - she's not paying for it - why doesn't she just say "ok fine that works" and leave? I'll tell you why: because she doesn't care about the car per se, it's a power struggle. She wants what she wants the way she wants it, and is willing to fight him over that. If she just wanted to run her errand & not fight, she'd just use the uber & be done with it. Yet she rejects that without giving a reason. He's right to react that it's a power struggle because that's exactly what it is.
If I was making millions per year & my girlfriend was stay at home pregnant, and I said "just take an uber", she just would without an argument. If she starts to fight and insist on her way, there is something else going on.
Your first point is completely useless. How would I be allowed to judge even if I’m in my own shitty relationship? Your second point is also useless because this leaves only two options. Be alpha or a doormat. And from the sounds of this entire argument you are trying to say I’m a doormat because I don’t act like Steven Crowder towards my own wife. Yeah you can fuck right off with all of that.
The rest of your argument is just dumbassery. Just because he’s famous and busy Monday-Thursday. The literal schedule for his show. Watch the Landau interview he did with Malice. Crowder doesn’t work on Fridays. The point being all of that still doesn’t excuse how he acts towards his pregnant wife. I’m saying pregnant wife because he still needs to look out for her health while she’s carrying his kids. So he needs to have restraint on his actions during that time. Afterwards the only restraint he needs to show is around his kids.
Married with kids. Also you shouldn't speak like an asshole to your spouse but it can happen, especially during arguments.
Arguments do happen and regretful comments can be made, but it still doesn’t excuse them.
That's true, but telling your wife that you do not love her is shooting your marriage in the head.
So if your wife who is high on hormones is 8 months pregnant, she can do or not do, and say whatever she wants and you can't do anything about it because she's pregnant? With that logic the world should be run by women in their third trimester because...she's pregnant. Next step...she's PMSing so you need to just let her do what she wants.
Judging from the video she wasn’t acting all crazy.
The downvotes and the replies you’re getting proves that point.