You're correct of course, but selling your dignity to get laid is a loser move. I wouldn't even hold it against him if he was dumpster diving to get his dick wet because I know how distorted the market is. Committing to a single mother though? They're for recreation only and there's no way a dude comes out ahead in that transaction. If he just wants to get laid he should dodge the bullshit entirely and get an escort.
Keep in mind the story is a year old too. This is the kind of story you really need to check the followup. Is the guy truly committing? He might just be going through some big hoops to get laid and then will bail in time once the "honeymoon" phase ends. I mean, you have to imagine the state of mind this woman was in. She was probably begging this guy to stick around and playing the part of what men want in women perfectly. Once that fades, perhaps he'll dip. Who knows. Sounds like he works out of town lots from the article, so he hardly has to put any effort into the raising of the kid himself but can reap all the benefits as if he's the boyfriend that stuck around for her. Kind of a smooth move in a way. I'm not condoning his actions. I'd have bailed. Women like her don't even deserve the illusion that a man can still love them. Still, I'd like to see a followup story before I entirely judge the guy. Sounds like he's gaming the system a little here. How did someone even think to write this article? Maybe he's getting a fairly big reputation boost for this as well and is riding it out a little with minimal effort on his part while getting his dick sucked often.
Jan 22 2023
Now, the lovebirds have revealed the rules they abide by for a happy home life - including constant location tracking and knowing each other’s passwords.
Alyssa and Max also keep track of each other's spending and tell each other if they are hanging out with someone of the opposite gender.
Taking to Tik Tok, the mum-of-two asked: “Do you think these are normal or controversial?”
“The rules aren't set rules for our relationship.["]
“They are just things that we happen to do.”
They track each other’s locations 24/7 through Google maps but Alyssa assured “we don’t use it to stalk each other” but rather for convenience.
She continued: “A lot of people said ‘what about personal freedom?’ and call it ‘controlling’.
“But we don't use it as a controlling mechanism.
Edit: And then at the end:
To help Alyssa find her feet, Max took a week off work to be with her as she cared for her newborn.
Their relationship has since gone from strength to strength as the couple welcomed a baby girl named Autumn together on January 19.
You're correct of course, but selling your dignity to get laid is a loser move. I wouldn't even hold it against him if he was dumpster diving to get his dick wet because I know how distorted the market is. Committing to a single mother though? They're for recreation only and there's no way a dude comes out ahead in that transaction. If he just wants to get laid he should dodge the bullshit entirely and get an escort.
Viability of his choice aside, it's clear he wants love, not sex.
Keep in mind the story is a year old too. This is the kind of story you really need to check the followup. Is the guy truly committing? He might just be going through some big hoops to get laid and then will bail in time once the "honeymoon" phase ends. I mean, you have to imagine the state of mind this woman was in. She was probably begging this guy to stick around and playing the part of what men want in women perfectly. Once that fades, perhaps he'll dip. Who knows. Sounds like he works out of town lots from the article, so he hardly has to put any effort into the raising of the kid himself but can reap all the benefits as if he's the boyfriend that stuck around for her. Kind of a smooth move in a way. I'm not condoning his actions. I'd have bailed. Women like her don't even deserve the illusion that a man can still love them. Still, I'd like to see a followup story before I entirely judge the guy. Sounds like he's gaming the system a little here. How did someone even think to write this article? Maybe he's getting a fairly big reputation boost for this as well and is riding it out a little with minimal effort on his part while getting his dick sucked often.
https://archive.is/R5TpA
Edit: And then at the end:
Christ how can anyone live like that?