The truth of the matter is if a woman is gauging you like she's a hiring manager then you are in fact nothing but her employee. She wants to know how little she can pay you to get the most value from you, just like an employer.
Women will go straight to a man's house she wants to sleep with without even a date. Every man wants to be this man. The problem is that women are now separating these men. If a woman wants sex, she contacts one of the top 100 men in the whole city, who are the same men all the other thousands of women are sleeping with. When she wants "resources" (serious relationship), she goes on dates and gauges how little she needs to have sex with the man to get him to give her tons of resources. She comes to these dates with 0 sexual energy because she gets all the sex she wants from those 100 men. The men going on dates with these women feel exactly what's going on. They feel like nothing more than resource providers and there's 0 intimacy. The men all want sex and they want to spend as little as possible to get it. When the men all know these women are sleeping around with other men for free, why would any man be willing to invest anything in these women? Not only that, the women don't come to the table with anything themselves. They don't offer sex and they don't offer anything else. It's pointless.
Yes, obviously exceptions exist but generally the women who are exceptions to what I described are ugly women. No man wants to be with an ugly woman. Worse yet, the ugly women act like the men should be lucky to date them when it should be the reverse. Ugly women should be putting in effort to attract the men but they don't so why would any man want to be treated like an employee by an ugly woman?
Overall, dating is worthless for men. The sad reality is that men get more value paying an escort than dating regular women found on dating apps. And if one doesn't want to buy an escort, men get better value just not even dating at all.
This is a grossly reductionist view on it, and I guarantee you women do not want to do what you described. Women use sex as a way to get into a relationship, which is different from the way men view sex, but they stigmatize whoring out.
Dating is useful because when you do encounter "job interview girls", you know she's not worth any more time. The whole point is to use dating as a screening tool. Bemoaning that dating doesnt generate immediate successful results is like complaining that you have to pour material through a sieve to get sieved material.
You and I both know the technical pick-up folks who just have sex have different goals than the folks trying to get in a relationship - most of them aren't very happy either, so claiming that dating is useless because it doesn't lead to that scenario is defeatist bullshit.
I am defeated. I tried dating for years. I'm now 34yo and single. I haven't been bothered to date for 2 years because of how bad dating is. I've gone on dates with well over 100+ women. I just got a new job offer for $140k/yr and I own a 3 bedroom house. I go to the gym 4-5 days a week, I'm fit, eat healthy, white, 5'10", still have some hair.
The relationship market is trash, it truly is. Some men still find success in it but most men don't. I mean, the stats where 2/3s of men are single in their 20s and 1/3 of men in their 20s haven't had sex in over a year didn't give it away?
Women demand too much and offer too little. It's not worth the energy. It's like panning for gold. Sure, maybe you could get lucky and find a gold nugget but for most people, you're just going to find dirt so it's going to just be a giant waste of time and money.
Question for you: How come you assume it's my personality that sucks so bad? Why don't you consider that the majority of women's personalities suck so bad that I avoid them like the plague?
The truth of the matter is if a woman is gauging you like she's a hiring manager then you are in fact nothing but her employee. She wants to know how little she can pay you to get the most value from you, just like an employer.
Women will go straight to a man's house she wants to sleep with without even a date. Every man wants to be this man. The problem is that women are now separating these men. If a woman wants sex, she contacts one of the top 100 men in the whole city, who are the same men all the other thousands of women are sleeping with. When she wants "resources" (serious relationship), she goes on dates and gauges how little she needs to have sex with the man to get him to give her tons of resources. She comes to these dates with 0 sexual energy because she gets all the sex she wants from those 100 men. The men going on dates with these women feel exactly what's going on. They feel like nothing more than resource providers and there's 0 intimacy. The men all want sex and they want to spend as little as possible to get it. When the men all know these women are sleeping around with other men for free, why would any man be willing to invest anything in these women? Not only that, the women don't come to the table with anything themselves. They don't offer sex and they don't offer anything else. It's pointless.
Yes, obviously exceptions exist but generally the women who are exceptions to what I described are ugly women. No man wants to be with an ugly woman. Worse yet, the ugly women act like the men should be lucky to date them when it should be the reverse. Ugly women should be putting in effort to attract the men but they don't so why would any man want to be treated like an employee by an ugly woman?
Overall, dating is worthless for men. The sad reality is that men get more value paying an escort than dating regular women found on dating apps. And if one doesn't want to buy an escort, men get better value just not even dating at all.
This is a grossly reductionist view on it, and I guarantee you women do not want to do what you described. Women use sex as a way to get into a relationship, which is different from the way men view sex, but they stigmatize whoring out.
Dating is useful because when you do encounter "job interview girls", you know she's not worth any more time. The whole point is to use dating as a screening tool. Bemoaning that dating doesnt generate immediate successful results is like complaining that you have to pour material through a sieve to get sieved material.
You and I both know the technical pick-up folks who just have sex have different goals than the folks trying to get in a relationship - most of them aren't very happy either, so claiming that dating is useless because it doesn't lead to that scenario is defeatist bullshit.
I am defeated. I tried dating for years. I'm now 34yo and single. I haven't been bothered to date for 2 years because of how bad dating is. I've gone on dates with well over 100+ women. I just got a new job offer for $140k/yr and I own a 3 bedroom house. I go to the gym 4-5 days a week, I'm fit, eat healthy, white, 5'10", still have some hair.
The relationship market is trash, it truly is. Some men still find success in it but most men don't. I mean, the stats where 2/3s of men are single in their 20s and 1/3 of men in their 20s haven't had sex in over a year didn't give it away?
Women demand too much and offer too little. It's not worth the energy. It's like panning for gold. Sure, maybe you could get lucky and find a gold nugget but for most people, you're just going to find dirt so it's going to just be a giant waste of time and money.
I don’t believe any of this. Either you’re lying or your personality sucks so bad that women would rather avoid you like the plague.
Question for you: How come you assume it's my personality that sucks so bad? Why don't you consider that the majority of women's personalities suck so bad that I avoid them like the plague?