If incels were honest with themselves, they'd admit what they really want is female validation.
Anyone with $200 in his pocket can get sex, if the celibacy was really the issue. If hiring a prostitute sounds gross, which I think it is, it's an admission that they really want someone who wants to be with them of her own accord, which equals validation.
But what these men need to understand is that it's not a validation at all, or at least not a validation worth anything, like you allude to.
60 seconds of sticky friction and empty words of affection, paid in cash or in trade for goods, actually is pretty disposable compared to all the experiences the world has to offer.
Now, men who want to start a family should focus on those experiences, because that not only also attracts women but the right kind of women, and help provide the wisdom to be a better father anyway.
If incels were honest with themselves, they'd admit what they really want is female validation.
Anyone with $200 in his pocket can get sex, if the celibacy was really the issue. If hiring a prostitute sounds gross, which I think it is, it's an admission that they really want someone who wants to be with them of her own accord, which equals validation.
But what these men need to understand is that it's not a validation at all, or at least not a validation worth anything, like you allude to.
60 seconds of sticky friction and empty words of affection, paid in cash or in trade for goods, actually is pretty disposable compared to all the experiences the world has to offer.
Now, men who want to start a family should focus on those experiences, because that not only also attracts women but the right kind of women, and help provide the wisdom to be a better father anyway.