I’ve been very cynical as well after the many times I’ve gotten the “you are such a great guy but I’m not interested speech” only to see the go off with a dude who is unemployed and has no intention of working or a dude that’s in and out of jail but I still have hope
Nice doesn't cut it. Nice isn't going to protect or feed her (hypothetical) kids, or provide her with good genes. In fact, it might be an impediment. Strength, wealth and status is. The guy in and out of jail probably has the first, possibly the second. As for the ones chasing unemployed men, you probably don't want those.
I get that and learned these lessons later than I should’ve but learned them in my 20s. I mentioned the unemployment and jail thing because I’ve heard these very women whine about not being able to find good men.
I have a cousin that used to brag about how he doesn’t like to work because there was always a woman dumb enough to pay his bills… and he was right apparently
I get that and learned these lessons later than I should’ve but learned them in my 20s.
And some people may not ever learn them. Don't regret that you learned them later than you'd have wanted, be happy that you learned them at all.
I mentioned the unemployment and jail thing because I’ve heard these very women whine about not being able to find good men.
Are they the same women? Good in their eyes is not necessarily good in your eyes, or even in the eyes of different women.
I have a cousin that used to brag about how he doesn’t like to work because there was always a woman dumb enough to pay his bills… and he was right apparently
I was about to ask if he's an extrovert who works out, but then I remembered all the cases of women working for a useless boyfriend who plays video games 10 hours a day with no apparent redeeming quality.
These things are generalities. There's always exceptions.
I’ve been very cynical as well after the many times I’ve gotten the “you are such a great guy but I’m not interested speech” only to see the go off with a dude who is unemployed and has no intention of working or a dude that’s in and out of jail but I still have hope
Read Robert Wright's The Moral Animal.
Nice doesn't cut it. Nice isn't going to protect or feed her (hypothetical) kids, or provide her with good genes. In fact, it might be an impediment. Strength, wealth and status is. The guy in and out of jail probably has the first, possibly the second. As for the ones chasing unemployed men, you probably don't want those.
I get that and learned these lessons later than I should’ve but learned them in my 20s. I mentioned the unemployment and jail thing because I’ve heard these very women whine about not being able to find good men.
I have a cousin that used to brag about how he doesn’t like to work because there was always a woman dumb enough to pay his bills… and he was right apparently
And some people may not ever learn them. Don't regret that you learned them later than you'd have wanted, be happy that you learned them at all.
Are they the same women? Good in their eyes is not necessarily good in your eyes, or even in the eyes of different women.
I was about to ask if he's an extrovert who works out, but then I remembered all the cases of women working for a useless boyfriend who plays video games 10 hours a day with no apparent redeeming quality.
These things are generalities. There's always exceptions.