Fuck, there is hope for us all, then...

I get this/feel it on a spiritual level, lol. Though I'm not female. And would never, ever do anything even remotely... "Queer". But yeah, look, I fucking get it.

I wish I didn't, though.

And beyond that, I've seen the "phenomenon" you describe so many times that it is no longer funny. In the Anglosphere and beyond.

So yeah, this holds, very clearly, with my anecdotal experience...