If I saw an exclusive girl's club I never tried to get myself into it. I ran the other way for the sake of my sanity. Guess this is another difference between men and women.
You Maniacs! You blew it up! Ah, damn you! God damn you all to hell!
Now that the female demographic is large enough, we are starting to see a separation into at least two distinguishable groups.
The first of these groups is the quieter of the two. These are the girls who game because they love it. [..] There was no extra attention for participating or not, just the satisfaction of playing a good game with friends or family.
However, there is a second group of girls emerging that Raychul lovingly refers to as “attention whores.” These are the girls who generally just expect attention for being a girl who plays video games. It’s not to say that these girls don’t genuinely enjoy games as well, however the problem is that they seem to think they deserve extra recognition or special treatment for it. Thus, their motivation moves away from it’s origins of “playing for fun” to “playing to get noticed.”
There are some, as Raychul points out, that may have “forced themselves into” gaming in order to get attention. However, I find that this type of pseudo-gamer tends to fade out. [...] This industry does discriminate against girls–however most guys, once they realize that a girl is a serious gamer, will treat you with the same degree of respect (if not more) that they give their male friends. If they don’t…well then why the hell would you want to be friends with them anyway?
Now the question is, why would girls do something like that? Why would you do something you don’t genuinely enjoy simply for the attention of men? Well, it’s a problem that many people suffer from that is completely unrelated to gaming: low self-esteem. These girls want to be part of what they see as an exclusive boy’s club. It is true that women are currently a minority in the gaming industry, which is why gaming men find girls who play video games more desirable. Girls who feel the need to be loved try to sneak their way into this “boy’s club” using video games as a pretense to say that they’re a “tomboy” or “just one of the guys.” But the reality is that it is not really for the “equality” that they constantly complain is absent, but for the feeling of superiority over other girls coupled with the adoration of the male gaming community.
This is the major difference between “gamer girls” and female gamers: the former wants a feeling of security and control from her social circle, while the latter simply wants friends who share her interest in games. Since these “gamer girls” get their self-esteem from the praise and adoration of men who play video games, they become dependent on video games as something far more than entertainment.
This is where the girl-on-girl hatred starts to come in. “Gamer girls” hate on each other because they feel threatened by each other. Another female in this “boy’s club” diffuses the overall attention that a girl will get. Therefore a “gamer girl” will rip into another female gamer to protect her status as the most important girl in this male-dominated social circle. This is not unique to the video game industry, I’ve seen it happen in other predominantly male territories such as tech schools and the local rock climbing gym I used to frequent.
I had 2 girls in my guild. One (girl a) called another girl (girl b) a bitch in a joking way. Girl b demanded that i kick her out immediately. I told her i need to talk to girl a about it and then have the two talk over it the next day. Girl a was offended girl b was mad.
I kicked out girl a and a few male simps went with her and quit the guild. Girl b wasnt satisfied that i didnt kick her immediately. She left and took a few simps with her too lol.
Almost all guild drama can be traced back to the girl members of the guild.
You're just as much a simp at fault for kicking girl A. Should have told them both to shut the fuck up and behave themselves, then kick them both if they didn't.
I thought being called a geek meant you liked something so much that you were willing to forgo social outings and popularity. That still seems to be the case, but the once coveted term is now being used as a marketing gimmick, and those who truly deserve the label are lost in the noise.
Pretentious females who have labeled themselves as a "geek girl" figured out that guys will pay a lot of attention to them if they proclaim they are reading comics or playing video games. Celebrities are dressing up as geeks to reach a larger audience. Richard Branson labeled himself a geek for crying out loud.
If you are otaku-obsessed about something, keep doing what you love and share with others that have the same passionate interest as you. And if you think something is interesting but aren't willing to put the time and effort into understanding it deeply or becoming extremely skillful at it, do everyone a favor and call yourself what you are: a casual hobbyist.
Being really passionate or skillful at something is not something you can fake; it takes a lot of hard work to be a geek. Being a geek isn't something you so much decide to do, but realize you are after the fact. People who are obsessed with something often don't even know it until others point it out to them, they are just doing what they like without thinking about the how or why.
Those that are deceitful about being a geek do it because deep down they want to feel that hunger to be so into something you can't eat or sleep, but just haven't found their thing yet. Don't pretend to love something because you think it will get you attention. Don't think that you can take a shortcut because there isn't one. Dig deep, dig to the roots, dig until you know things that others you admire in the subject matter don't know or can't do. Then go ahead and proudly label yourself a geeky girl.
If I saw an exclusive girl's club I never tried to get myself into it. I ran the other way for the sake of my sanity. Guess this is another difference between men and women.
You Maniacs! You blew it up! Ah, damn you! God damn you all to hell!
Because you're a predator dangling your sexuality in front of beta orbiters in order to secure attention and money?
Oh jk you're still the victim, kween ;D
I had 2 girls in my guild. One (girl a) called another girl (girl b) a bitch in a joking way. Girl b demanded that i kick her out immediately. I told her i need to talk to girl a about it and then have the two talk over it the next day. Girl a was offended girl b was mad.
I kicked out girl a and a few male simps went with her and quit the guild. Girl b wasnt satisfied that i didnt kick her immediately. She left and took a few simps with her too lol.
Almost all guild drama can be traced back to the girl members of the guild.
You're just as much a simp at fault for kicking girl A. Should have told them both to shut the fuck up and behave themselves, then kick them both if they didn't.
On hindsight, sure.
This one too: Dear Fake Geek Girls: Please Go Away