The point they should understand isn't that their daughter "doesn't like boys her age," it should be is she sexually attracted to girls.
That's literally what being a lesbian is all about. It has almost absolutely nothing to do with men as the primary motivator.
It's not uncommon for children that age to think that way. Although, sadly, it's become much more common.
A good book that I think you should read is: Irreversible Damage: The Transgender Craze Seducing Our Daughters by Abigail Shier.
Many of the core subject matter is exactly the same as what's likely taking place right now with their daughter. What they're experiencing is the first phase before it gets much worse and she begins to follow social trends.
You can even leave it on the coffee table the next time they come over. Without even having to say anything, It will very likely catch their interest by the title alone. If they don't show any interest, at least you'll still be better equipped if they ever express concerns in the future and can offer it to them.
One of the biggest problems is something you highlighted but may not be aware of that's actually separate from public schools: it's "nerd culture."
If their daughter is participating in consumer nerd culture in any meaningful way — particularly by using chat programs such as Discord or Social Media — then chances are exceptionally high that she's likely being preyed upon by someone within the alphabet community.
This is something her parents should be warned about. This is not just speculative or paranoia either. They have entire channels on discord that prowl social media and other discord channels where young awkward children participate and actively prey on them. It's something that should be taken very seriously. I've seen it happen a few times even with people that I know.
The messed up part is that tech companies actually protect these people. At worst, they may get a ban; however, it won't be like an IP ban or anything significant and it won't stop them from simply creating a new account and continuing to prey on kids.
There are practically zero safeguards in place for children on such platforms or even in online gaming. The alphabet goofs run the show and any sort of disciplinary action only happens if they really cross a line. Otherwise, they're free to prey upon anyone they want and if the tech companies try to stop it, then the predator takes to social media and complains that they're "bigots" — the usual song and dance.
Either way, chances are very high that their daughter isn't actually a Lesbian, she's just slowly being made to hate her core identity because it's not popular in mainstream culture to be straight and white. More than adults, kids are desperate to fit in to whatever the social standards are. They're terrified of being ostracized and not being part of the collective. This makes them easier marks for malicious assholes who wish to prey on them in order to reaffirm their own identity.
It's not uncommon in any reality for a damn 12-year-old to not be sexually attracted to boys yet. They're barely at the beginning stages puberty for crying out loud.
They should be weary and make sure that none of the nerd communities she's participating in are also contributing to warping her perception of herself.
I’ve met lesbians and it has so very much to do with the topic of men and their failure to be women worth taking or keeping. Even hung out with a pre-les. Fat, entitled, gross, delusional, wanted my money for nothing in return, regularly said “I’d be a good lesbian with X”
Lesbians mostly exist when men are so weak they’re repulsive, in combination with women so masculine they’re repulsive
as for me I know one who went lesbian as she couldnt find any male be interested of her, I guess some hormonal issue as she seemed not broadcast any womanness ,despite appearing to look one (in general body broadcasts to subconscious via smells/manner/etc male/female status)
The point they should understand isn't that their daughter "doesn't like boys her age," it should be is she sexually attracted to girls.
That's literally what being a lesbian is all about. It has almost absolutely nothing to do with men as the primary motivator.
It's not uncommon for children that age to think that way. Although, sadly, it's become much more common.
A good book that I think you should read is: Irreversible Damage: The Transgender Craze Seducing Our Daughters by Abigail Shier.
Many of the core subject matter is exactly the same as what's likely taking place right now with their daughter. What they're experiencing is the first phase before it gets much worse and she begins to follow social trends.
You can even leave it on the coffee table the next time they come over. Without even having to say anything, It will very likely catch their interest by the title alone. If they don't show any interest, at least you'll still be better equipped if they ever express concerns in the future and can offer it to them.
One of the biggest problems is something you highlighted but may not be aware of that's actually separate from public schools: it's "nerd culture."
If their daughter is participating in consumer nerd culture in any meaningful way — particularly by using chat programs such as Discord or Social Media — then chances are exceptionally high that she's likely being preyed upon by someone within the alphabet community.
This is something her parents should be warned about. This is not just speculative or paranoia either. They have entire channels on discord that prowl social media and other discord channels where young awkward children participate and actively prey on them. It's something that should be taken very seriously. I've seen it happen a few times even with people that I know.
The messed up part is that tech companies actually protect these people. At worst, they may get a ban; however, it won't be like an IP ban or anything significant and it won't stop them from simply creating a new account and continuing to prey on kids.
There are practically zero safeguards in place for children on such platforms or even in online gaming. The alphabet goofs run the show and any sort of disciplinary action only happens if they really cross a line. Otherwise, they're free to prey upon anyone they want and if the tech companies try to stop it, then the predator takes to social media and complains that they're "bigots" — the usual song and dance.
Either way, chances are very high that their daughter isn't actually a Lesbian, she's just slowly being made to hate her core identity because it's not popular in mainstream culture to be straight and white. More than adults, kids are desperate to fit in to whatever the social standards are. They're terrified of being ostracized and not being part of the collective. This makes them easier marks for malicious assholes who wish to prey on them in order to reaffirm their own identity.
It's not uncommon in any reality for a damn 12-year-old to not be sexually attracted to boys yet. They're barely at the beginning stages puberty for crying out loud.
They should be weary and make sure that none of the nerd communities she's participating in are also contributing to warping her perception of herself.
I’ve met lesbians and it has so very much to do with the topic of men and their failure to be women worth taking or keeping. Even hung out with a pre-les. Fat, entitled, gross, delusional, wanted my money for nothing in return, regularly said “I’d be a good lesbian with X”
Lesbians mostly exist when men are so weak they’re repulsive, in combination with women so masculine they’re repulsive
as for me I know one who went lesbian as she couldnt find any male be interested of her, I guess some hormonal issue as she seemed not broadcast any womanness ,despite appearing to look one (in general body broadcasts to subconscious via smells/manner/etc male/female status)
I dunno about that, as far as I can tell hating men is the primary motivation for lesbians.