It's worse than that, and it kind of explains the rise in cuckoldry and the feminization of men.

In order to seize women as a voting bloc, the government is using paternalism to attract the votes of women, and are intentionally: feminizing men, destroying the family unit, institutionalizing distracting vices for men, all because this ensures women's dependency on the state and intentionally cuckolds the men.

Men, free men, are a competitor to the power of the state, and as such must be destroyed and undermined.

And I think this is the uncluttered perspective. When you see tyrants, you do see this intentional cuckolding of their male subjects, and the emergency of a hypergamy for the elite. Uday Hussein raped brides in front of their husbands. The Ottomans took harems of women, while castrating men they took as slaves. The Pharoh Ramses had well over 100 brides. Hitler didn't rape any women or kids himself, but the Hitler Youth program basically tolerated the impregnation of girls who were 15 and up during their training programs (likely to facilitate the population growth needed for an army), and when the girls were asked who the father was, they had been conditioned to say that the father was Adolf Hitler, and the child was for Germany. I'm pretty sure we could just guess how many Communist countries claimed their dictator was the "Father" of their country.

The government wants to seize every other marketplace to control it, why wouldn't they do the same for the sexual marketplace?

When you add in that the type of person to be attracted to the position of "high ranking government bureaucrat", it should be obvious that this type of person would not be otherwise drowning in pussy. The bureaucrats regulate and create prices for other commodities, they could do the same with their own sexual marketplace price through corruption. How quickly would a beautiful woman sell her body to a bureaucrat for food?

I believe that when we wash away a lot of the unique characteristics of one authoritarian regime from another, and distill tyrannical structures down to a general equation, we should see that the cuckolding of free men must be an imperative to the tyrant.