While I 100% agree that men are under attack on many fronts these days, that does not mean that this type of sexual objectification does not happen. It DOES happen. A LOT. It has happened to me numerous times, starting at age 10. It has happened to EVERY SINGLE ONE OF MY FEMALE FRIENDS at least once, and in most cases many times. And even to a couple of my male friends also.
The point is not to blame men, but to acknowledge how society is conditioning us ALL to objectify ourselves and others. When the Best Song award goes to a vulgar, crass monstrosity like Cardi B for Wet Ass P---y, and the grammy show featured girls simulating lesbian sex in stage, you know we have gone a looooong way down the wrong road.
You are promoting cultivation theory. This is no different than Anita Sarkeesian claiming that sexist videogames create sexist attitudes and behaviors in the real world.
The truth is that human beings are sexual creatures, and the combination of free will and dysfunctional people will inevitably generate aberrant behavior. We should discourage and punish this behavior, but the notion that we can realistically eliminate it isn't just idiotic - it's dangerous.
Cardi B is a symptom of the degeneration of culture, not the cause.
I'm not going to attack your personal experience and just say this.
Shouldn't these things be handled without massive public attention? What purpose does it serve to share them publicly, other than to conjure a certain narrative?
Literally everyone knows Cardi B is famous because she openly hates and denigrates men. Her big break came after women bought her songs en masse when she confessed to drugging a guy and stealing his shit and not feeling any remorse for it.. There's tons of female musicians with the same record of creating man hatred anthems. Ariana Grande "Thank you, next" (about someone she pushed to suicide) , Taylor Swift's entire recent career etc.
I think my comment was misinterpreted, so my apologies for not being clear.
I do NOT support in any way, any of the disgusting and vulgar displays so common in music performances today. I do not make excuses for these women at all. I do not blame men specifically for any of it. There are simply corrupt and wicked people of both genders (because there are only TWO) who care only for profit and are happy to model performers as whores and thugs if it makes them money.
I didn't think I was attacking anyone. I agree that men, especially strong men, are under constant attack by the media. TV portrays husbands as emasculated dolts. Its awful. It is intentional.
And I assumed it was clear that I have nothing but scorn for vulgar no talents like Cardi B who prostitute themselves publicly for fame. It is not "avant-garde" or "pushing boundaries" to do what she did on stage. It is demeaning and disgusting.
I was simply refuting the claim that "all" the testimonials of early age harassment were made up. Thats all.
The point is not to blame men, but to acknowledge how society is conditioning us ALL to objectify ourselves and others.
No it's not. The point is to create a social climate where women have basically unlimited power. And that's what you see. Even a mere accusation from a woman can ruin a man's life. Even if the accusation seems absurd on its face.
Meanwhile nothing happens with the genders reversed. Harvey Weinstein got fucked up. That guy who grabbed Terry Crews junk just went about his daily life.
And nobody cares if it's someone they support politically. This is nothing but power games where people use this shit for social and political power. The minute it harms their political or social power, they ignore it.
You are no different and just supporting it because it gives you power, not for some fake reason like hating the degeneracy in pop culture. What a silly connection you're making. An absolutely absurd connection on its face, considering the people who support this hostility toward male sexuality are also supporters of the degeneracy.
Do you think the people at Buzzfeed who wrote this article hate Cardi B and that sort of degeneracy? They absolutely do not. It's all about giving women the power to be the biggest whores imaginable, and do whatever they want without consequences, while demonizing male sexuality, so men feel less than women. And it works. Take a look at the rise of cuckoldry. Men are being psychologically tortured in to hating themselves so much that they derive pleasure from being cuckolded.
And you are supporting it because you're a woman. And you will justify anything that is in your favor. And you will always advocate for things to be more in your favor, no matter how slanted toward you things already are. Either that, or you're brainwashed by the propaganda.
Whoa!! That is not at ALL what I was trying to say. Someone said that all the stories of early age harassment were bogus. I and others I know have experienced it. So I was refuting that ONE claim.
Other than that, I misspoke when I said "society." I should have said the liberal agenda to break down nuclear families and emasculate men and promote licentiousness and perversion as empowerment.
I wasn't "supporting" anything. I think you read a whole lot more into my clumsy response than was actually there, or intended.
That said, I welcome discussion or being questioned about something I said. Either I can clarify something that was unclear or maybe you make me see it differently. But to immediately go on the attack is not helpful. It is a lost opportunity to share your perspective with me.
Educate me if you think I am off base. Don't just try to attack and humiliate.
While I 100% agree that men are under attack on many fronts these days, that does not mean that this type of sexual objectification does not happen. It DOES happen. A LOT. It has happened to me numerous times, starting at age 10. It has happened to EVERY SINGLE ONE OF MY FEMALE FRIENDS at least once, and in most cases many times. And even to a couple of my male friends also.
The point is not to blame men, but to acknowledge how society is conditioning us ALL to objectify ourselves and others. When the Best Song award goes to a vulgar, crass monstrosity like Cardi B for Wet Ass P---y, and the grammy show featured girls simulating lesbian sex in stage, you know we have gone a looooong way down the wrong road.
Time to turn this shit around.
You are promoting cultivation theory. This is no different than Anita Sarkeesian claiming that sexist videogames create sexist attitudes and behaviors in the real world.
The truth is that human beings are sexual creatures, and the combination of free will and dysfunctional people will inevitably generate aberrant behavior. We should discourage and punish this behavior, but the notion that we can realistically eliminate it isn't just idiotic - it's dangerous.
Cardi B is a symptom of the degeneration of culture, not the cause.
I'm not going to attack your personal experience and just say this.
Shouldn't these things be handled without massive public attention? What purpose does it serve to share them publicly, other than to conjure a certain narrative?
Literally everyone knows Cardi B is famous because she openly hates and denigrates men. Her big break came after women bought her songs en masse when she confessed to drugging a guy and stealing his shit and not feeling any remorse for it.. There's tons of female musicians with the same record of creating man hatred anthems. Ariana Grande "Thank you, next" (about someone she pushed to suicide) , Taylor Swift's entire recent career etc.
I think my comment was misinterpreted, so my apologies for not being clear.
I do NOT support in any way, any of the disgusting and vulgar displays so common in music performances today. I do not make excuses for these women at all. I do not blame men specifically for any of it. There are simply corrupt and wicked people of both genders (because there are only TWO) who care only for profit and are happy to model performers as whores and thugs if it makes them money.
I didn't think I was attacking anyone. I agree that men, especially strong men, are under constant attack by the media. TV portrays husbands as emasculated dolts. Its awful. It is intentional.
And I assumed it was clear that I have nothing but scorn for vulgar no talents like Cardi B who prostitute themselves publicly for fame. It is not "avant-garde" or "pushing boundaries" to do what she did on stage. It is demeaning and disgusting.
I was simply refuting the claim that "all" the testimonials of early age harassment were made up. Thats all.
In reply to your fun fact; patriarchy would suggest fatherhood. It’s as if the word patriarchy now means, “Raised by pimps.”
Oh no, not tradcuckery.
Modern technology has made housewives obsolete. They literally give no benefit at this point for the expenditure.
i have to ask where you have been hanging around tbh. This has not happened to me or to any of my female friends
I grew up in Los Angeles. So perhaps my experience is not typical.
I got the heck out of Cali decades ago because I wanted to experience life "outside the plastic bubble."
Settled in TX and never looked back.
I don't disagree at all. I would argue only that the evil and corruption has gotten more blatantly and unapologetically "in your face."
No it's not. The point is to create a social climate where women have basically unlimited power. And that's what you see. Even a mere accusation from a woman can ruin a man's life. Even if the accusation seems absurd on its face.
Meanwhile nothing happens with the genders reversed. Harvey Weinstein got fucked up. That guy who grabbed Terry Crews junk just went about his daily life.
And nobody cares if it's someone they support politically. This is nothing but power games where people use this shit for social and political power. The minute it harms their political or social power, they ignore it.
You are no different and just supporting it because it gives you power, not for some fake reason like hating the degeneracy in pop culture. What a silly connection you're making. An absolutely absurd connection on its face, considering the people who support this hostility toward male sexuality are also supporters of the degeneracy.
Do you think the people at Buzzfeed who wrote this article hate Cardi B and that sort of degeneracy? They absolutely do not. It's all about giving women the power to be the biggest whores imaginable, and do whatever they want without consequences, while demonizing male sexuality, so men feel less than women. And it works. Take a look at the rise of cuckoldry. Men are being psychologically tortured in to hating themselves so much that they derive pleasure from being cuckolded.
And you are supporting it because you're a woman. And you will justify anything that is in your favor. And you will always advocate for things to be more in your favor, no matter how slanted toward you things already are. Either that, or you're brainwashed by the propaganda.
Whoa!! That is not at ALL what I was trying to say. Someone said that all the stories of early age harassment were bogus. I and others I know have experienced it. So I was refuting that ONE claim.
Other than that, I misspoke when I said "society." I should have said the liberal agenda to break down nuclear families and emasculate men and promote licentiousness and perversion as empowerment.
I wasn't "supporting" anything. I think you read a whole lot more into my clumsy response than was actually there, or intended.
That said, I welcome discussion or being questioned about something I said. Either I can clarify something that was unclear or maybe you make me see it differently. But to immediately go on the attack is not helpful. It is a lost opportunity to share your perspective with me.
Educate me if you think I am off base. Don't just try to attack and humiliate.