Thats just the issue, because social pressure will hit them from both sides and neither is pleasant. There are two ways of dealing with this: pick a side, or retreat into the family unit. Unfortunately, the latter is less possible thanks to a variety of socioeconomic factors, such as two earner households, distance between immediate amd extended family, and societal pressure to conform to the new orthodoxy.
Thats just the issue, because social pressure will hit them from both sides and neither is pleasant. There are two ways of dealing with this: pick a side, or retreat into the family unit. Unfortunately, the latter is less possible thanks to a variety of socioeconomic factors, such as two earner households, distance between immediate amd extended family, and societal pressure to conform to the new orthodoxy.