It was not a positive or a kink, it was a form of brutality, subjugation, genocide, and a prevention of insurgency.
By a lot of suggestions of fetishism studies, "rape fetishes" were developed as a consequence of women learning to cope with the constant rape of human's more animalistic eras of development. Learn to enjoy it because its gonna happen anyway. Which is now a leftover of evolution once we progressed to being less rapey as a species.
I didn't mean to imply they sought to get conquered to fulfill orgasms, but it influenced their decision making process once the conquering came.
Women do not actually want to be harmed
Strong disagree. Have been involved in many sadomasochistic relationships, and the level of violence and harm they demanded from me was often far and above my comfort level and I heard to overcome my own basic decency to reach it. One wanted to be choked until she literally passed out. Another wanted me to slice her with a knife over and over and feed her the blood. All consensual for the record, but still harm was done.
These are extremes, but not as rare as you would think once you get involved in the "lifestyle." Many even "normal" women will allow you a level of harm with sufficient attraction to you that you'd be shocked by.
I do completely agree there is that difference. Many end up paying the price for not knowing that. The line between the two is often not well defined in their head.
By a lot of suggestions of fetishism studies, "rape fetishes" were developed as a consequence of women learning to cope with the constant rape of human's more animalistic eras of development.
I don't really buy that. I would expect that if this were true, the male experience of rape would be far less able to cope, but I've seen no evidence of that being true.
I didn't mean to imply they sought to get conquered to fulfill orgasms, but it influenced their decision making process once the conquering came.
Right, but there's a difference between a fairly rational survival choice and a fetish.
These are extremes, but not as rare as you would think once you get involved in the "lifestyle."
I feel like that's more likely to be the result of having been involved with "the lifestyle", rather than just the aggregate results.
I do completely agree there is that difference. Many end up paying the price for not knowing that. The line between the two is often not well defined in their head.
Right, and I think that discrepancy is coming out as a result of the influences in society that are promoting femininity in men as a moral good.
By a lot of suggestions of fetishism studies, "rape fetishes" were developed as a consequence of women learning to cope with the constant rape of human's more animalistic eras of development. Learn to enjoy it because its gonna happen anyway. Which is now a leftover of evolution once we progressed to being less rapey as a species.
I didn't mean to imply they sought to get conquered to fulfill orgasms, but it influenced their decision making process once the conquering came.
Strong disagree. Have been involved in many sadomasochistic relationships, and the level of violence and harm they demanded from me was often far and above my comfort level and I heard to overcome my own basic decency to reach it. One wanted to be choked until she literally passed out. Another wanted me to slice her with a knife over and over and feed her the blood. All consensual for the record, but still harm was done.
These are extremes, but not as rare as you would think once you get involved in the "lifestyle." Many even "normal" women will allow you a level of harm with sufficient attraction to you that you'd be shocked by.
I do completely agree there is that difference. Many end up paying the price for not knowing that. The line between the two is often not well defined in their head.
I don't really buy that. I would expect that if this were true, the male experience of rape would be far less able to cope, but I've seen no evidence of that being true.
Right, but there's a difference between a fairly rational survival choice and a fetish.
I feel like that's more likely to be the result of having been involved with "the lifestyle", rather than just the aggregate results.
Right, and I think that discrepancy is coming out as a result of the influences in society that are promoting femininity in men as a moral good.